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So according to mvp, Colleen may have had a legimate reason for the delay, but instead of disclosing this to the OP she chose to LIE TO HER AND STOPPED TAKING HER CALLS. Yes, I am yelling…
The fact that some here are attempting to excuse this behaviour, is as disturbing to me as the behaviour itself. Have I somehow crashed headfirst into an alternate universe where it is okay to lie to, and ignore customers, and expect to maintain a stellar reputation as a business…Oy vey![/QUOTE]
I hope you’re not talking about me. mvp, perhaps?
IMO, there’s a wide gulf between “excusing behavior” and “asking people to consider the wide and grave jump from ‘this woman delivers incredibly crappy customer service’ and ‘this woman is a liar and a fraud.’” The first one–crappy service and communication–is pretty much undeniable based on multiple testimonials in this thread. And may Colleen’s business sink or swim under the weight of that. But the evidence for Colleen being a liar or fraud is much more loosey-goosey.
For you, it’s clearly a foregone conclusion that Colleen is lying. For me, that evidence could swing both ways. It could swing toward “Colleen is a criminal who is pocketing money and lying to her customers.” If so, may the cops and credit-card companies uncover this and hold her accountable. If there are other customers out there with damning stories to tell, I hope they show up–or, more important, contact Obiwan so that they can pass their story onto the correct set of cops. That’s how whats-her-face at Danforth Fine Used Saddles finally got caught.
But there are other possible narratives besides “Colleen is lying.” What if Colleen tried to protect her customers and business by temporarily withholding deposits until she saw movement on earlier existing orders? What if Adam Ellis/Patrick Saddlery tried to protect their bottom lines by not doing additional saddle work for Colleen until she started communicating better and/or sending more money? Now add in a dose of Colleen sucking at communication with her suppliers and customers, which means she may have really thought that saddle was “next in line” for months on end, and her penchant for not staying in good touch with her customers. I’ve just described blazing incompetence, [edit], and a bad case of “the road to hell is paved with good intentions.” But I haven’t described a crime. I’ve described something that happens all the time in the wedding and special events industry, the home renovation industry, the custom high-end car industry, etc.
So I’m merely suggesting that we all slow the roll on “Colleen is a LIAR!!!” Not stop the roll, just slow it down and be precise about it.