My heart really goes out to you and I am so so sorry for such a sudden and unexpected loss. I have never had an issue with any vaccines for my horses, but I did get a severe reaction on my Birman kitten when she was about 6 months old. She too went into anaphylaxis and almost died, but the vet was able to save her. This has been 21 years ago now ( we lost her last summer right before she turned 20… still tears in my eyes as I type this… I LOVED that cat), but the vet told us to never have her vaccinated for anything again. He said it is usually not the actual vaccine itself that causes an issue, but the carrier that is used to administer the vaccine. I might be wording this last part incorrectly, but maybe you can get the gist enough to ask your vet about it?
P.S. Our event was sudden and probably only 30 mins elapsed after the vaccine until she went into shock.