Years ago, at my first FEI event ever, I finished cross country clean and inside the time. I was on top of the world in the vet box until one of the FEI judges pulled me aside and told me I had looked scary out there. He told me I was lucky my horse was balancing his frame up on his own because I wasn’t helping him. And he told me he would let me off with a warning instead of a yellow card but that I needed to be more careful about my riding in the future.
I was floored. I’d had no idea that I was riding too dangerously. I rode with one of the top trainers in the area and he’d never said anything to me. And it’s very possible that it was just my attitude that day, when I came out of the box feeling I had to prove something, that shaped my riding on course. Maybe I had never been dangerous before but I was that day.
I was embarrassed but I wasn’t angry at the official. Instead I was thankful, and I continue to always remember that moment as a positive experience. This was a person who cared about my well-being more than he cared about me being upset.
Literally not one person said something to me about my ride. (For the record, my trainer had no been able to see any of my round, as he was warming up other riders who were going after me.)
To this day I still think of that moment as a potentially life-saving conversation.
In regards to this rider…the ‘old’ video contains important, pertinent information. I’m not going to pick it apart now but both horse and rider are showing flaws that at least tells me what might have happened.
This person’s record shows a story too…of someone who had only one Intermediate under her belt, which does not necessarily equate to competency at a level. And it shows that this person went for time at their first Intermediate. She got close to time at their first outing, when not many made time or chose to go for time. I wouldn’t be surprised if she went out there seeking the time as well, which is an entirely more challenging skillset at Prelim and above, and above and beyond just learning how to navigate these bigger and more challenging obstacles.
I don’t know what happened. But I see a story unfolding in these videos and by looking at this pair’s record. If an investigative report would be released that told what happened, we could all actually learn from this tragedy and hopefully prevent another. If I knew X and Y were contributory factors in someone’s death, I would make triply sure I wasn’t doing X and Y. Until we have governing bodies who release details as to why the fall occurred, we will continue to have deaths from people who haven’t been able to learn from other’s mistakes.
Also frangible tables are a good investment, because mistakes shouldn’t kill you.