Okay so this might sound goofy, but what sponge are you using to clean the sides of the tank?
We had tropical freshwater fish for years when I was younger, and there was an incident when a new sponge was purchased for wiping down the glass sides of the tank during tank cleanings. Well, it was a kitchen sponge, not a fish tank specific sponge. Very few fish survived that mistake
Considering you’ve done water testing for a lot of the things, I figured it’s worth checking to make sure you’re only using fish-specific products.