[QUOTE=AMWookey;8570217]
I really really appreciate everyone’s responses.
I remember one day, after everyone getting on my case about giving him the smackdown. The farrier had just finished with him, so his anxiety level (he really isn’t normally an anxious horse, except with the farrier) was higher then normal. He bit me, and got me, so I gave him a loud smack. He turned around and was like “fun game” and bit me again. Another smack. Then he turned around and put his lips on my arm, as if to say “Your move. Now what are you going to do?”
Farrier was on the floor pissing himself laughing. It was at this point that I realized ‘come to jesus’ moments that everyone encouraged with him, were really just “gelding play!” . Especially when I watched him and his best friend do literally the exact same thing. Nibble, nibble, nip, then “I’m not touching you”. My horse would then put his bum in buddys face, taunting him to bite him, then half heartedly kick when he did. Geldings are goofy animals.
So I will continue with positive attention before things that I know lead to the mouthiness, elbow out, and if I can manage it, poke in the gums. Those all feel like responses that have worked, or will work with his personality.
Nothing is ever easy with this horse, but his personality and work ethic more then makes up for it. He is cute as a button too. Not handsome. Just cute as pie.[/QUOTE]
That’s not a “come to Jesus moment” that’s a game. If you have to do it twice in a row, you didn’t do it right the first time. Your horse needs to think he is going to die. When my guy bit me the first time, I hoofed him so hard in the chest he didn’t know what hit him…and he was damn sure it wasn’t a game. Never bit me again.
Your gelding may stick his ass in his buddy’s face to be bitten, but he sure as hell doesn’t do that to the alpha horse in the herd or he wouldn’t have an ass left. Your horse thinks you’re a buddy not an alpha, that is the problem.