We have one that could be like that. He went through a few ‘good horsemen’ and was given to me when I lost my heart horse who was over 30 years old and my current riding horse the next day to snake bite.
He is a very good looking horse which is why he was picked out by ‘good horsemen’, he did not excel in their environments.
At the riding school he bit a mother standing near his yard. He kicked out at a staff member who flicked a lunge whip at him in a paddock.
I explain him as having a very big sense of fairness. If he thinks you have done something unfair he will retaliate.
I have taught this horse everything. I don’t just mean to walk to lead, but HOW to walk. It was like he was a fake horse and I had to teach him how to be a horse.
In the beginning I did flick the lunge whip at him wgen he was free and he retaliated. I calmly explained to him that I had flicked it for a reason. That reason was fair and there was no reason to retaliate. Thank you very much.
One ride on him and I knew he was not the horse for me. He was too quiet under saddle. He is a wonderful school master, he has no buck. There is no excitement for me to ride him.
So I trained him for my hubby. The horse was a lot easier to train than hubby!
From Day 1 I have said : DO NOT FEED THIS HORSE BY HAND.
DO NOT FEED THIS HORSE WITHOUT A HALTER ON UNTIL I SAY YOU CAN.
I can do anything with this horse with a look or my voice. He is a bully to the other horses, however really he was unconfident. He needed confidence in his handler/rider and bonded to me. I can control him at liberty. He is not allowed to eat until a hand on his neck. With this horse everything like that is followed 100%. I never skip.
I go into the laundry. 2 feed bins on the washing machine. Sim’s neck and head extended with his muzzle reaching to just near the feed bins. Hubby, one carrot to Sim, one carrot in a feedbin, one carrot to Sim, one carrot in the other feedbin, one carrot to Sim, and so on.
DO NOT FEED BY HAND. HE WILL GO YOU ONE DAY. DO NOT FEED HIM WITHOUT A HALTER.
He feeds him carrots from the ute when he gets home after buying carrots, then complains he can’t get the feed off the ute because Sim is there. Well don’t train him to come to the ute when you get home. DO NOT FEED HIM BY HAND. DO NOT FEED HIM WITHOUT A HALTER.
10 years this happens for. 10 years of do not do what you are doing. This horse will go you.
One day I am carrying a feed bin and I trip and fall into Sim’s back leg and stifle. He had a reasonable reason to kick me. He never moved. He is the perfect horse. Oh was he praised.
Until I go away for work for 3 weeks. I was not there to keep Sim in his place.
I get a phone call from Hubby at the start of the 2nd week. Sim charged him. Hubby is over 6 foot tall and solid. Sim is 16,2hh tb, he knocked him down and gave him a black eye.
What were you doing?
I was feeding him and told him to back off. He came at him from 6 feet away.
I told you he would go you if you did not feed him with a halter.
He did not have a go at me. He went for me.
I did not say he would have a go at you. I told you he would go for you. That is 2 completely different things. What did he do afterwards?
He backed off into a corner and said he was sorry.
Oh so he did not really go for you then.
YES HE DID HE FULLY WENT FOR ME.
No he did not. If he had had a full go at you, he would have reared and come down on you and/or he would have turned and double barrelled you in the head. You would be dead. He would not be sorry. You would not be making this phone call.
PUT A HALTER ON HIM TO FEED HIM. DO NOT FEED HIM BY HAND. (No sympathy from me.)
Hubby did that for 2 weeks. He was afraid of him for a couple of days. Once I am back, hubby has reverted back to his old ways. It has been another 5 or so years now.
I have not given him those instructions for any other horse here only Sim. I havecstill not said he is able to feed him without a halter. He feeds him without a halter.
People do not think of horses as being aggressive and attacking. Even though I told him every day for 10 years he could not see it. Sim is a lamb for him to ride. He puts his ears forward and butter would not melt in his mouth. He is so lovely. People come here now and see a correctly muscled dressage horse and fall in love with him. Hah I have tricked them, he now looks and acts like a horse, not faking to be a horse. People do not think of horses as attacking people, they think of them like kittens and unicorns. They are not all kittens and unicorns.