I’m waffling on this! I did eventing for years, but I can relate to FatCatFarm about my dwindling time as one of the main factors. I have a fairly demanding job and now have 2 horses in full work. When I had one horse, I could take an entire weekend day to go xc schooling, or participate in a 2-day clinic, etc. I had to trailer out for my jump lessons, so whatever jumping I did, it would require at least a 1/2 day (with trailering + lesson).
Also, I do love dressage. I have felt how much it improves my horses and makes them better athletes (for whatever discipline we want to do). And it is amazing how they slowly build strength and now movements that were hard, start to feel easy for them. There is always something to work on, or improve, I never feel bored in my non-jumping rides!
I still take a jumping lesson about once a week. But the dressage work has improved my event horses rideability to fences, as well as her balance. Started my young horse over baby stuff this summer, did one xc school and she seemed to love it. But again, I don’t feel like I have the time to get both of them prepped to do an event. I would need to quit my job and do that full-time (and that doesn’t pay the board bills!)
Another aspect was the show experience. When started showing dressage, I was amazed by how reasonable the schedule was. I had time to chat with others, to watch other rides, and enjoy the day! With events (especially 1-days) I was always walking xc courses, putting in studs, changing tack, wrapping, bathing, braiding, and then walking the SJ course! After a long, hot weekend, we had to strip all of the bedding out of our stalls (after we had paid $100-200 for the tent stabling). And then pack up for a long drive home (sometimes 7 hr drives, whereas, I can compete in a number of recognized shows within a 1 hour drive).
My young horse (now 5) was jumper bred, but I have shown her dressage so far and she has gotten really good scores. I have no desire to jump huge fences but I do want her to be an “all-around” horse. I do hack her out, set up lots of cavalettis, and do some little jumps. I’m actually planning to do dressage primarily with her, and then see if I want to event her when she is older. Or, maybe we will just do dressage! 