Answering some more questions, thanks everyone for your comments and suggestions so far:
When they are away at shows, which is very often as our barn goes to a lot of A-rated shows per year, I teach 2 days during week, and once on the weekend. On the days I teach during the week, Iâm there for 9.25 hours and no, I donât get overtime. The weekend day I am usually there 8 hours. Before lessons during the week, I get horses ridden/exercised which makes for the 9+ hour day.
When they are home, lessons are split amongst us - but this varies day to day and is not set in stone who is teaching what lesson(s). If I am not teaching, I am riding/exercising horses or other duties as listed, and also often left with the last lesson of the day.
On the 2 days I donât teach I usually work a 7.5-8 hour day (sometimes more depending on if something comes up). That includes all duties I listed aside from teaching.
Passion
I do enjoy teaching but we also have such a wide range of riding levels that are thrown together during the week due to kidsâ school schedule, parentsâ work schedule, etc. so it can be difficult raising/lowering jumps, setting, or tailoring lessons for each rider. I want to make sure each rider gets a good lesson and I hold myself to that standard as itâs what I would expect from my trainer.
My passion is being with the horses really, and connecting with each of them. They are truly amazing animals and I want to do right by them, whether thatâs being someone who works with them when theyâre young and matching them with the right person or helping their person understand them better and become better riders because of it.
I used to want to compete at the top level of the sport, and part of me still does, but we can all have another conversation about the direction of the h/j world and being only for the wealthy. I canât afford to go to multiple shows a year or be on the road all the time. On top of that, I care about my horses and often think about their well-being both mentally and physically at those levels of the sport. I used to view the Olympics as a platform where I could potentially show others you could still climb to the top if you put in the hard work, time and effort with your horse to get there, the course and obstacles being a true testament to the relationship with your horse and skill together as partners. Now, it seems to be about if you can afford the horse first and foremost along with all the travel and show fees associated to qualifying for such an event. Maybe it could happen, but itâs discouraging to hear older professionals talk about this who have been in the industry for so long.
If I canât realistically compete at the top level, Iâd like to potentially start young horses for a manageable number of clients, take them to shows to get miles and experience, and go from there. Hopefully bringing one of my own horses along to those shows as well. I donât see myself running a huge program and have no desire to forever put aside my dreams/energy/mind for someone else. Of course, I have to make a living, but I would like to look forward to âworkingâ every day and would like the horses to look forward to it as well.
Off-days
Three days off is rare for me since thatâs when they are home from shows (and I will be attending more shows with them this year hopefully since EHV seems to have calmed down). My two off-days are split. One of the off-days is for all horses too, and no one is at the barn aside from the stall cleaners and feeders, so I wouldnât be able to work my horses on that day anyway.
Other
Riding is important to me and needs to be part of the job. I want to stay fit and move toward my goals as a rider which at the moment is still jumping at a higher level.
I have helped this employer on my off-days probono for several things relating to my degree.
Iâve been with my boyfriend for 7 years and yes we have discussed marriage so the benefits things isnât a huge concern as I will likely take his on.
Iâm trying not to get too down into the details - but understandably a lot are wondering how I manage to do all the things I listed. Every day is different, there is no consistency really aside from the fixed lesson times which can also make this hard. I would love to plan out the day and work week but honestly some things are spontaneously put on me that I canât easily say âwell that doesnât fit in my work dayâ as Iâm sure you can imagine and understand.
Appreciate you all immensely again for any input. I want to be realistic with my pay and trying to get an idea for what you all would value for someone like this, also as a necessity with consideration to COL in the area, so when I discuss it with my employer is doesnât seem unfair. Of course, they may simply be unable to accommodate which I understand could very well happen.