May,
1st… my manager was talking about the guy shooting at the trespassers. Seems there may be other circumstances involved…PT me if you want to hear what she had to say about the “crazy homeowner.”
2ndly, I’ve wondered the same thing about how you go about getting permission to ride on other people’s land. I don’t know many people in the area and don’t know them well enough to ask permission to ride. So, for now I just take our little trail in our woods and loop around the power line trail & come back (of course…I’m just leading my youngsters).
I can see both sides… walking horses carefully around somebody’s property when weather conditions are appropriate doesn’t seem like a problem. But… I can also see how people would be concerned about the liability aspects and sadly, many people don’t have the same care & concern for other people’s property that we would have (tearing up the ground, riding through crops, galloping on private property).
I’ve had problems with people trespassing…
There were the paintballers who were having great fun in our woods without permission. Somehow, I don’t like herds of teenage boys carrying “guns” on my property. They drug roofing material & an old bed frame into the woods to use as targets. They left trash… paintball boxes & cigarette boxes & beer & soda cans. Finally, I confronted one of the parents… the kids retaliated & shot up the no trespassing signs and then the family moved & the painballing stopped. The last thing I needed was for some idiot kid to jump out of a tree & break their leg & sue me. I also don’t like underage drinking going on.
Then there are the 4 wheeler problems… People who clearly know they are on our property and one set of neighbor’s that we thought were friends.
1st… May, you’ve been to my house… the 1st house on the left as you drive in… Man & his elementary school aged daughter… never asked permission & were riding their 4 wheelers on our property… most of the time they went slow… but they never had asked permission & I was concerned about the liabilty issues of such a little kid on a potentially dangerous piece of equipment. It’s a divorce situation & who knows if Mom knows what was going on. It would have poured & been muddy & they were out riding… they didn’t care about tearing up our grass or our trail. Then a tree fell down in our woods… it blocked the trail. I was fine with it… I could get around it if I needed to, but I felt it created a nice little block for most 4 wheelers. Well… #*($(( neighbor takes it upon himself to open the trail…without asking & without our knowledge he took his chainsaw down & cut the tree so the trail was opened again. Had my husband not talked to him, he was planning to remove the old farm junk (without our permission) out of one of the gullies… I guess that would enable him to do two things… 1. sell the metal to put money in his pocket & 2. open up a fun place to zoom his 4 wheeler around. Situation finally ended by me calling him & telling him that he did not have permission to be on our property and we could not allow people to ride 4 wheelers because of the liabilty issue.
Then a week ago…I went to the outlets & turned to the left… 99% of the time I go right. I noticed that the big mound of dirt & our field had tire tracks. GRRREAT… Well, coming home, I found out why… 3 four wheelers (one with double people) were having a grand ol time on our property. These neighbors are in the middle house on the same side as the previous neighbor. Well, I say something to husband… again my concern is the liability issue… you know that they weren’t just moseying around our field and you know that the intent with the mound of dirt was to see how fast they could go over it & how much hang time & lift they could achieve when jumping off of it. I personally think 4 wheelers are dangerous… I personally don’t like them & the last thing I need is for one of the kids (or their parents) to flip a 4 wheeler on themselves & sue me.
I said something to husband… he didn’t like the liability factor or the trespassing factor either & went down to talk to them. My husband is very laid back & I’m sure he politely asked them to not ride the 4 wheelers. (I had been told not to go with him… a wise decision on his part.) The lady took great exception to the fact that we wouldn’t let her ride the 4 wheelers on our property :eek: She proceeded to go ape#(($ on poor husband. Like a little kid having a temper tantrum, she complained that I drive too fast (I’ve never gotten over 25 mph… there is no speed limit, & I’m usually well below 20), that our manure pile is a problem (she’s way too far away to be anywhere close to it & as far as manure piles go ours is about as un-stinky as they get). I occasionally will walk a horse down the lane to check mail… she complained about the manure…ironically, I hadn’t walked a horse down in MONTHS except I took Willow down that morning… no piles from her.
These are the same people that previously had told me it was okay to walk the horses on the grass so the gravel wouldn’t be too hard on their feet & they’d always want to pet the horse whenever I went by. Guess, I found out their true feelings.
So… no more walking a horse down the lane (I’m afraid of what they’ll do to get me hurt) and I now drive turtle speed. In return they’ve promised to stay off of our property… and the next time they do…I’m calling the police… so much for friendly neighbors sorting out agreements in a peaceful manner.
After, my husband returned after talking to them, I took Amber out to work her for county fair… they proceeded to zoom their 4 wheelers up & down the gravel road & did donuts in the cul de sac in front of our house (it’s a blue sign, so I don’t think there is much I can do). Amber was not bothered in the least bit. Since that didn’t get a rise out of my horse, they decided to let off as many firecrackers as they could. At first Amber was fine, but then she got upset & reared. Charming neighbors… These are the same people that had a grand 'ol time with the illegal fireworks over the 4th… poor T was a wreck.
Well… I guess I’ve gotten off on a little bit of a rant and the 4 wheeler comments are on a bit of a sidetrack… but because of the obnoxious 4 wheeler riders they have ruined it for the rest of them… had somebody came over and politely asked for permission and ridden responsibly, I may allow them to ride (with a written release), but now, I won’t be allowing any 4 wheelers on our property.
I don’t trust riding horses on a lot of Cecil County roads… people fly & occasionally there are people who intentionally try to scare your horse. I have some good friends with super trail safe horses & I will ride with them on roads, but they are usually very lightly traveled roads.
These friends have permission from all of the property owners to ride. One Christmas, we dressed up the horses & went carroling (sp) & gave the property owners cookies. It was a lot of fun & a goodwill gesture letting them know how much we appreciate them allowing us to ride.
Fair Hill is AWESOME to ride at, but I don’t have a trailer & really don’t know the trails well, so that rarely works for me. I’d love to get Willow there again & I just backed Remi last weekend, so hopefully, he’ll be ready after a bit more work.
I hope it all works out for you & if you get permission to ride over to my house, I’d be game to go out with you Here is a website that may help you find property owners: http://sdatcert3.resiusa.org/rp_rewrite/ It gives you the physical address & names of the owners of the property, so you could know the owner’s name if you stopped by, you write a letter if you wanted or it should be relatively easy to find a phone number (phone book, searchbug.com, whitepages.com, etc.).
Best of luck! (sorry this got so long)