<BLOCKQUOTE class=“ip-ubbcode-quote”><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Soup From the Store:
Well excuse me for being blunt.
Why get so fussy over something you know next to nothing about?
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Soup, I like you and I love your photographs, so please take this in the friendly spirit in which it is intended.
There is no reason to tell people that they don’t know what they are talking about. Everyone is entitled to an oppinion, and it is good for all horse sports when people who aren’t “insiders” become involved and care enough to have opinions. All horse sports need to expand their fan base in order to grow. And fans, by definition, are less involved than the principles. That’s why I smiled yesterday when I listened to the very self important middle aged man standing behind me at the Upperville Grand Prix tell his wife and daughter that Maclain Ward’s horse was a dangerous jumper… Hey, at least he dragged himself out to watch, bought a program, and is probably about to get talked into riding lessons for the kid.
You are getting a very special experience by working at the track – and you have a different sort of knowledge than many people posting here. One of the best ways that you can be an ambassador for the sport you clearly care very much about is to try to teach people, rather than point out what they don’t know. People will respect your knowledge more, and therefore learn more from you, if you share what you know kindly. This is true of all things in life. There is nothing wrong with correcting a mistake, but if you can do it gently (as in, “in racing, we use that term differently”) then people will be more likely to listen to you. And since the point of this BB is to share ideas, that makes you a more effective communicator.
Plus, it’s good to remember that you can learn from many different people with many different backgrounds. I was humbled by the father of a girl I used to ride with – I’d written him off as knowing nothing about horses and politely ignored his observations about the lame horse we were jogging up. After all, horses don’t go lame in their “back knee.” But this one was off in his hock, not up front as I was guessing…and the orthopedic surgeon who’d dropped his daughter off for a lesson spotted it correctly.
Anyways, I really don’t mean to preach and I do enjoy your posts.
And since I rarely post over here but did love watching the race – can someone tell me how flexible the trainer’s instructions or race plan typically are? How much is left up to the jockey’s discretion based on how the race shapes up? --Jess