@Training Cupid I apologize for offending you. Obviously there are exceptions to every rule. Clearly, there are some people of more moderate means who are able to show by making sacrifices elsewhere in their lives. However, I would venture to point out that there are fewer and fewer people like you. As costs have risen, it’s harder and harder to pay for a show by braiding, grooming, or prize money. It’s one thing to scrimp a bit to pay $500 or $1000 for a show, much harder when it’s $2000 or $3000. A person who can scrimp a bit and come up with $2000-3000 is in a different financial ballpark than someone who can scrimp a bit to come up with $500 or even $1000. Also, while it is possible to save some money by taking a DIY approach, that is getting harder to do.
I don’t think you can compare having a Birkin/ LV bag and an iPhone to horse showing. A Birkin bag is, let’s see, $15,000? (Based on a quick google search–handbags are not my thing!) That’s peanuts compared to buying an A level show horse (ballpark at $30,000 - $75,000), boarding/training it ($10-20,000/year), shoeing, vet, farrier, saddle, bridle, show clothes, etc. The $2000-3000 per show of expenses is just the cherry on top.
FWIW, I compete at the A shows, so perhaps I’m insulting myself as well when I talk about the competition. I’m simply pointing out that because growing numbers of potential competitors are excluded based on finances, it becomes less meaningful and less interesting. Of course, there are many incredibly talented riders at any A show–many riders who are just a pleasure to watch and to learn from. However, pretty much NO ONE is excluded from an A show due to skill. If you have the funds to buy a superstar packer and can pay the entries, and can hang on over a very basic course of 8 2’6" jumps that all have ultra well defined ground lines and many related distances, you can show. It is not uncommon to see less than skillful riders propped up on very nice horses. This is fine to me, I’m more concerned about the competitors who are excluded due to cost.
I absolutely have nothing against people who spend their money at horse shows, especially since I am one of them. But, I feel like our OP’s post is timely as I have recently started to feel a little cynical about the money that I spend on showing. I think it’s a good question. There ARE other ways to have a lot of fun with horses that do not cost as much. Hunting, trail riding, local shows, eventing, dressage, hunter paces, etc.