Like many people, I began riding as child because it was fun and exciting. I loved horses and the chance to ride a lesson horse back then held all the mystery and emotion of Alec with the Black Stallion. Just grooming horses was exciting. Later on, after showing no loss of enthusiasm, my parents built a barn and horse care became a big part of my life. I spent every extra hour in the barn practicing everything from bandaging to braiding–everything about the horse was interesting. In the summers or during vacations, my friends and I would pack lunches in saddle bags and head off on the trails for a day and get into all sorts of fun trouble. We showed most weekends and took lessons weekly, yes, but shows were never our ultimate goal. It was always about the fun of “horses.” The same horses that sported braids and won ribbons one day could be found galloping in a mock race the next–and loving it as much as we did.
While I did show heavily as a junior all the way through my 20s (in all 3 rings up to a/o jumpers), I count myself as lucky that showing has never been my primary motivation. I’ve never stopped riding and training and still school multiple horses on most days and ride in clinics here and there, but I haven’t shown in over a decade. And that’s totally OK with me. My horses live at home with me and they’re part of my life and family. The other day I left work early and took one of mine on a long ride through a park to enjoy the fall foliage and beautiful weather. It was rejuvenating in a way showing never was. Without showing, I’m able to take very nice vacations that almost always incorporate some riding. Last year we spent a week riding horses over the Inca Trail to Machu Picchu which was much more fun than sitting around for a class at a horse show! For me at least, it’s always been about being with horses and the adventure and freedom that came with riding.
It seems like the sport has moved away from that last part. It’s lost the fun in that never-ending pursuit of the blue and tri-color ribbons. Winning today requires so much of a person in both money and time that it leaves next to no room for anything else–unless one can afford a team to take on much of the work. Speaking of the not wealthy working amateur, it’s unsustainable for any of us to spend vast amounts of free money and most vacation days on horses shows. Who wants to live that narrow and stressed a life? Not me.
I do miss showing, but not enough to sacrifice financial security and all of my personal downtime. I’ve soured on what showing has become, from the over-the-top fees to the long travel times to reach them to the ridiculously tedious schedules (last time I showed, my horse and I had to wait for almost 2 hours while an empty ring was held for a trainer. Ridiculous). A sport can’t always take, take, take and only give back or cater to a few. For many of us, riding is a hobby that we fit in around work, family, and general living. Why do those on the inside think it’s right for us to practically kill and bankrupt ourselves just to be in their presence?
I do wish the major horse brands would clue into and act to help solve the problem. I’m talking about the brands that NEED the masses to stay in business. I wish they would take a stand with the show world that demands their sponsorships. I’d support a brand that would say, “I’m with the people who actually buy my products and my dollars will no longer support you (show world) until you find a way to make this work for them as well.” Wishful thinking.