I am a lurker and never post but this subject is near and dear to my…heart. I am riding in a Keiffer now (not my saddle, not my horse) that literally takes a layer of skin off my, ah erm, lady bits, every time I have a lesson. I have ridden in dozens of saddles and never had a problem so this was all shockingly new to me. At first I thought it was a weird symptom of getting older, like my knees mysteriously aching after my boots have been zipped up too long. It took a while to identify the problem. The saddle doesn’t have a nice place to sit, it pretty much goes from cantle to the rise to the pommel, with no flat spot at the bottom. That rise is what’s killing me. I have found that wearing underwear without a seam in the crotch (found them at road runner sports) helps. I looked into padded underwear but they kind of creep me out.
One benefit of this experience is that I can identify what doesn’t fit me about certain saddles so I won’t have to repeat this experience.