I just started an “in barn” lease on a horse, meaning I have to go to him. He’s about 20/25 minutes beyond my work, which is about 20 minutes from home. It’s not ideal for me and if I could, I’d move him to a very nice place closer to home but it isn’t an option. Part of the issue is that the barn is in a direction that I wouldn’t ever go otherwise, I have no friends or anything out that way etc. I do have a friend who boards there and I’m friends with the BO so I feel at home there. It is a drag getting done at the barn at 7:30 or 8 and having a 40 or so minute drive home but I really like the horse. Willingness to drive a long way is a personal decision. For some, who live in metro areas, there’s almost an assumption that “everything is 45 minutes away” while I live in a small city and can easily get to several nice and reputable barns within 15/20 minutes. If the commute is mostly quiet roads it is less stressful that wrestling 10 miles in 30 minutes to escape an urban center. I have friends who drive well over an hour even in my area in order to get the training they prefer. Another friend boards 15 minutes from home but trailers to a trainer over an hour away weekly for lessons. She works from home and can be more flexible.