I take my dog everywhere she can go. I figure it’s good for her to see as many new things as possible just like getting my horse out to new venues = ) I would never try to take her someplace that isn’t dog-friendly though because that’s just obnoxious.
My pup is super well-behaved though, so it’s a non-issue. I work a lot during the week, so when I get home and friends want to go “out” somewhere, I try to go to a place with a patio so the dog can come. She’s happy to be with us after a day of alone time, and we can still go out. We’ve only had her for a few months, but our venue choices have changed considerably = ) I miss her when I’m gone, haha. She’s also a super car dog (even being 75 lbs in my 2 door honda), so I’ll take her on trips to pick up the fiance from work or from a friend’s house because she likes it.
If I had a dog that needed socializing, I would absolutely take advantage of stores that allow dogs. But I would be doing MUCH more training than shopping in that case.
I am also hyper aware of leash length and my surroundings. I abhor those extendo leashes, or worse, dogs not leashed at all that clearly cannot heel appropriately off leash. I invited my friend out for a doggie hangout (they mostly slept while we had some social drinks at a local spot), and I was shocked at her dog handling skills. She’s so used to her friendly lab being adored by all and off leash at home that she had no CLUE that not every person who walked past our table wanted to be assaulted by a shedding licking mess (and this is one of my favorite dogs ever who is quite well behaved when asked to be…) It kind of wrecked our outing because I was spending the whole time trying to keep her dog close and settled despite her inattention.
My biggest concern is always for MY dog’s welfare, so it makes me SO nervous when owners are so lax about their dog’s whereabouts… Sure, your dog is friendly, but while it’s wandering around off leash or on a 20’ lead and you aren’t paying attention, what if it encounters an aggressive dog or a grabby child? Then your sweet little pup might have a life altering experience…
Some people just don’t get it, and those are the ones that ruin it for the rest of us = )