@Janet
Since you quoted me about my comment about texts potentially being intrusive, I just figured I’d articulate my line of thinking. I’ll preface this by saying not everyone feels the same way about these things, so YMMV.
I leave my phone on vibrate. If it rings and I’m talking with someone, I may completely ignore it and let it go to VM… or I may look down and see who is calling, then let it go to VM (unless I’m expecting an important call). I don’t know why they are calling. I don’t check the VM until I am free to do so. Since I don’t know the contents of the VM, I don’t think about it much until I have the chance to check that particular message.
Depending on your phone’s settings, it may or may not display the content of a text message on the screen when it is received. And pretty much all phones show the first few words of a received text when opening the messaging app to check other messages. When my phone vibrates with a text, I may also ignore it, or I may also look down to see who it is. The difference is, I can also immediately see the contents of the message and know the topic, even if I wasn’t looking at my phone for the purpose of checking that particular message. While not all people are “wired” the same way, I personally can become quite distracted by the message. Not so much if it’s something minor or regular, but if it’s something unexpected and unusual, I’m suddenly hyper-fixated on the message as opposed to whatever I’m supposed to be doing. That may be working with a client, or it may be at home relaxing on the couch-- but either way, I don’t need to be preoccupied by an outside work text at that moment.
I recognize not all people (including many vets) react the same way, but that’s the reasoning for my comment about them being intrusive. It’s also my reasoning for not sending vets complicated matters via text message without them requesting me to do so first. I started my career path in vet school and left because of the work/life balance, so I tend to be more paranoid about overstepping boundaries than many folks.