Iām glad Iām not in the minority regarding tipping. I was worried this was a thing. Although, I do think that from what I have seen on Facebook that my trimmer probably wishes I would.
To clarify about the laming of the horse, this was a horse that I had here previously - not either of my current horses. That horse was previously foundered, had terrible foot quality, was insulin resistant, and had a club. Clearly a complicated case, but she did lame him repeatedly. My two current horses have decent feet and are pretty straight forward, so no problems with trimming for either of them.
The problem with finding another trimmer is that there arenāt many good ones around here. I have my two horses at home, so some farriers donāt even want to be bothered with such a small account. If I could find a reasonable alternative I would certainly be interested, but Iāve looked and donāt really see any other options at this time. I guess Iām just going to have to pretend I donāt know what I know. I will keep my eyes open for other possibilities, though. It is concerning that if I leave it will have to be a permanent change, since she has so clearly stated that she wonāt take back prior clients.
I appreciate all of the responses.