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From a 4-H volunteer (and 4-H show judge)/former county 4-H educator: (and you probably know this, but just in case…)
Your child should most definitely be encouraged to braid the mane herself. This is not a show-day only thing, she should be practicing now! (Help from an adult is okay for younger kids, not so much for teens and up.)
If braiding on the left is what she can do most easily/successfully, then that’s probably fine. If she can braid it on the right and have it turn out nicely (and remember, practice is the key here) than that would be preferable. But the key is to have your daughter do it herself to the best of her ability, and learn what she can in the process. A 4-H show judge should be quite appreciative of a project that a child has done by themselves, to the best of their ability.
And even if the judge doesn’t reward the honest effort… the point of 4-H is to learn from your experiences and to continually improve yourself. Having mom do it/paying a braider is fine for open shows but it is not the intention or procedure for 4-H. If you want your daughter to get the “youth development” aspect of the program… help her learn to braid the best she can, encourage her to practice, make it fun and rewarding, whatever it takes… but don’t do it for her.
(I grew up in 4-H. My mother did not braid my pony for 4-H events. 20 years later, I cannot remember what we did or did not win… but I can pull and braid a mane like nobody’s business. That’s what 4-H is for.)[/QUOTE]
THIS a thousand times over. It’s about what your daughter can do well, but if she can braid the right side, she should and be proud of it. I don’t braid for myself much these days, but I can. The first time I showed at an A with a BNT, they looked at me like I was beyond crazy when I went to braid my mare. But I did it and they turned out well. I was 17, and that was longer ago than I care to mention, but I can so clearly remember my feeling of accomplishment when I braided that horse, I didn’t have the A show experience at that time, and I felt so good about myself to have at least that one skill (I could ride well as well, but I was there as a working student, so if I couldn’t ride, I wouldnt have been there, lol). So have her practice now, so when the big day comes, she’ll be able to tackle it!