This is a great update!
When I moved my elderly pony from Colorado to South Carolina, there was a donkey at the SC barn where I boarded. The BO asked me if my pony had ever seen any long ears–I told her not in the 15 years I had him, but didn’t know if he had in his first 15 years. She tried him in a pasture with the donkey and an old gelding, and he made immediate friends with both.
The BO warned me to be careful of the donkey when I was spending time with my pony. He’d been abused and could be very unfriendly. I was out there the first time since my pony became roommates with the other two, and felt someone breathing down my back. I thought it was the old gelding, but nope, it was the donkey, making friends. He loved to have his ears scratched, and of course back scratches like most equids.
The first time the BO saw me petting the donkey, she said “well, that’s a first!” Made me feel good to make friends with such a cool critter.
Rebecca