[QUOTE=betsyk;8924284]
Lots of great suggestions. We’ve had two who were tough about bridling, one because of ears. For him, curling his head and neck toward me as I started bridling him (treat) then holding the bridle in front of his face (treat), rather than reaching between his ears seemed to help. I’d let him take the bit (treat) then pause while I reached up and started with the right ear (treat). Lengthening the cheekpieces a hole or two and making sure your browband is big enough might also help - you can shorten the cheekpieces after the bridle is on, but be careful the bit isn’t so low that it bangs into his teeth.
Our mare just needed to know that nobody was going to shove the bit into her mouth or pull it out before she was ready. She was “easy” once we realized we just needed to take it slowly and give her a moment to reach down for the bit, rather than bringing it up towards her.[/QUOTE]
I think this is also true for her. She just needs some time, patience, and love and she will be perfect, I have no doubt! She is such an angel about everything else that it makes me sorta sick thinking that someone must have been really rough with her ears to make her this way!