Eventers are great: Loaned to random strangers

I’ve been included on course walks-in-progress with UL trainers before. I’ve offered to pay their fee and they said ‘nah’. Actually at virtually every horse trials that I ever attended on my own.

Some BNT’s generously sweep up any random who wants to join, during their major course-walk with students, that includes parents & others. I find it very helpful to hear how different experts approach a course.

A friend was first time at a major event, came trainer-less, was doing her course walk on her own. She was puzzling over the best ride strategy to a big down bank with a wonky approach when an Olympic rider came walking by, noticed her and asked if she had any questions. She explained her thinking and her (short) horse. He said ‘this is what you need to do’ and gave her specifics.

She felt good about what he said and decided to adopt that strategy. The next day in XC warm-up, the same rider noticed her, took a moment to stop his own horse, and say ‘do you feel ok about that one, any more questions?’ Nope, she was going to do as he suggested.

She says it was one of her best ever XC rides, using his tip.

This was also not a situation of potentially winning over a new student / client who doesn’t currently have a trainer. They were there from separate states that are 1k miles apart and he knew that.

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Ben Hobday gave Shadowman to Chris Burton for the season to aim at last year’s olympics, knowing that the strength in depth of Team GB meant that he wouldn’t get the chance himself.

Cue Burto walking away with a silver medal on a borrowed pony :slightly_smiling_face:

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i’ve never met an eventer, as my region doesn’t have the sport, but this thread makes me want to! what an uplifting read (and the underwear offers :rofl: )

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And they make A LOT OF NOISE when they root for each other . :rofl: The competitor parties are a lot of fun. They set up some jumps with poles to lower to do the limbo at one of our locals. And we had a few people who thought they could handle their liquor :roll_eyes: It was hilarious.

AND puppy races! with prizes

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I used to go to events on my own and the kindness of the other competitors was amazing. Always offering to hold my horse, join a course walk, loan equipment, etc.

I usually have extras of everything in my trailer but one day I arrived at a foxhunt without a bridle. I was quickly outfitted by a someone who had an extra, but it was quite a challenge taking my OTTB out in a snaffle. He showed some real speed that day!

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Oh! I have another one!

We were just about to leave the grounds at a recognized event when my friend’s old old (manual transmission!) truck caught fire.
Yes it was SCARY!
And as we were getting out of the cab, we saw people running to our help from all over.
She however stayed cool as a cucumber, grabbed the fire extinguisher while I unloaded the horses with a helper.
Fire extinguished, friend on the phone to AAA to see what could be done.
A guy comes up to her and says, Please just use my truck to drive your horses home and we’ll figure out how to get it back to me later.

I was floored.
So, we did get home fine that evening, thanks to the kindness of a perfect stranger. :hugs:

(But the underwear story definitely takes the cake, :rofl:)

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DH & I were brandspanking new to Eventing when we decided to go to a local charity HT.
I had no idea how to use the Startbox & asked someone.
Coming from the Land of Hunter Princesses, I expected a withering glance if they even bothered to answer :worried:
Not only did this person take the time to stand with me & watch several starts, but when I told her I was going right before my equally clueless DH, she offered to do the same for him.
Thanks to this nameless good sport, we both had a fun intro to XC.
In our matchy-matchy rugbys :star_struck:

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AH! I have a good one! Mr. Asterix has run SJ warmup at Waredaca HT for many years now, but back when we were first married and he was first being, er, indoctrinated into event volunteering, he was put in XC warmup for the day. I was doing dressage warmup across the driveway (a job I have thankfully left behind - it’s the one place eventers are reliably snippy :wink:). I look across at one point and see my husband wearing a hat, and pants…but no shirt.
Turns out a competitor had shown up with a sleeveless shirt, and my husband, always a stickler for the rules, had informed her this was not legal. The trailers are pretty far from XC start at Waredaca, and she was a bit freaked out at having to go back and find another shirt…so he offered her the shirt off his back, literally. She took it, wore it, made it, I’m sure, even more sweaty and gross than it already was, and gave it back after she crossed the finish line…

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That is incredible. What a guy!

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Definitely the winner of tonight’s internet. :rofl:

This one and the underwear are truly at the top of epic eventer generosity. :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

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I was a 19 year old kid who drove up from FL to VHT alone with my two horses. I had all my stuff thankfully, but an amazing family who was stabled next to me gave me their help.

They offered me food, treated me like I was part of the group, and even helped hold my horse for me while I was getting on. The mother wiped my boots and made sure that I was good to walk to the dressage warm up. Her daughter was in the same division and she filmed part of my XC round.

Just a really amazing family that helped out a random stranger. Made that weekend an awesome memory.

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Not eventing, but at my first dressage show as an adult my old, zipper-less Effingham tall boots refused to even slide over my calves. No amount of pulling or praying was getting them on. Maybe the August mid-day heat caused some swelling paired with added bulk from thicker show whites, but it was clear that there was no way these tall boots from my teenage days were going to work. I foolishly didn’t even have paddock boots with me, and my trainer’s boots were 4 sizes smaller than mine so that option was out the door.

Dejected and frustrated with myself, I was on my way to the show office to scratch when I see another rider who looked to be about my size. I sheepishly started to explain my situation and before I could ask if she had a spare pair of old boots she interrupted my pitiful story and readily offered her beautiful show boots to me borrow. That kind and lovely woman 100% saved my day!

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This wasn’t eventing, but a little schooling show that I was using to train for eventing.

It was my youngster’s first time in an indoor. He jumped the first two lines great, but the third line was heading directly to a huge bank of artificial flowers that were being stored in the indoor. He backed up the whole length of the arena!

Two very big name jumper riders came into the ring, lowered my fence until it was just poles on the ground, and gently encouraged my horse by using cedar boughs behind him.

He stepped over the poles and jumped everything else perfectly, all day.

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I was at a horse trial in California just to watch. A young teenager came trotting over to her group of friends/family and called out “I forgot my bra!” Another teen said “get off, you can wear mine” and they dashed to a portapotty. The friend went in, came out waving the bra with glee, the rider went in for a minute, ran out and jumped up on her horse and made her start time.

THAT is friendship.

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None of these examples, which are very generous, compares to loaning out an Olympic caliber horse that will have to travel to Asia to compete with one of your closest rivals. To me that is an entirely different situation especially because maybe Billy Haggard and Bold Minstrel would have been chosen to replace Mike Plumb. I don’t remember if there was already an alternate in Tokyo that could have taken Mike’s place.

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Yes, but, on the other hand, they were not “random strangers”.

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Indeed, loaning your new dressage saddle to a stranger is an act of faith!

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But isn’t that what Mark Todd did a few years ago? Encouraged a reluctant horse with a broken shitty old branch? And the uproar. “Rolls eyes”

Disclaimer- have enjoyed the positive stories in this thread

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This is a positive thread. Are we really going to go down a rabbit hole of which BN thing was the bestest or the worstest?

It’s ok to just let things go, sometimes. :wink:

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