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If you do not like what is happening in this sport, get off your arses, stop whining about it, and DO something. Is it too scary to take action? Is it easier to go on witch hunts and talk about how horrid our sport has become (since the long format went away)?
Does anyone think that this sort of discussion is doing anyone any good at all?
This is another one of those threads that points fingers, promotes gossip, and generates animosity. If you want to give this sport a bad name, gossiping online is just the way to do it.
Oh CoTH![/QUOTE]
While I understand your frustration (to an extent) I don’t agree with your dismissal of the voicing of opinions on a discussion forum as a case of people “sitting on their arses” doing nothing, nor do I think that your characterization of people’s concerns as “whining” is at all helpful.
While I don’t make judgements about matters that I know nothing about (the opening post of this thread is one such matter) I do have an opinion about matters that I know are factual (Ms. Little’s bloody mouthed horses for example).
Am I not allowed to be interested? Since there is no avenue for me, in my circumstances to “get off my arse and take action” regarding Ms. Little’s bloody mouthed horses, is it wrong for me to voice my opinion? I care about the horses and the sport.
When all I can do at this point in time is read and discuss the situation with COTH members who are interested in the subject, apparently I should either “shut up”, or speak and be considered by you as a gossiping whiner that is “giving the sport a bad name”.
[QUOTE=JP60;8941658]We are not far apart on this so I won’t belabor the point after this. Hand wringing, Kvetching…these are sometimes the nuggets that start the eventual problem solving that can come about. At the end of the day, the sport is a community and by extension, so to this forum. Every community has moments of just … sharing. Sometimes it’s jsut nice to tell or hear a story, a confession or commiseration. WD, either you are a hard heart, which I doubt, of you have to see that life is not all about problem solving, it is first about acknowledging people and who they are, what they think and feel.
I’m not going to solve the problem of ML in our sport, but the next time she brings drama to the sport (and we all know she will), coming here and remarking on her next horrible ride and having others respond not only makes me feel better, but I learn for it means my eye is getting wiser. That’s kvetching to me[/QUOTE]
When TPTB do nothing to in such circumstances it is understandable, and hopefully will always be inevitable, that the the peanut gallery will publicly wonder why.