Update bc unfortunately I was right about being ghosted
My new farrier came out yesterday and he is wonderful! I was very impressed by him. My horses are in good hands with him and I am no longer (presently) swearing off all farriers lol
He told me that my previous farrier has a reputation for ghosting people. He’ll be good for a while, then will randomly go AWOL, and will eventually pop back up like nothing ever happened. There was some speculation as to why he does that but who knows how much of that was small town gossip.