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Who said the OP’s mom (and anyone else on this thread) WASN’T paying the man? [/QUOTE]
LOL!!! Farrier, Vet and Sawdust Man (sounds like he needs a cape and a big S on his chest) all get paid in cash or negotiable check on the spot. As well as Christmas gifts, home made apple pies, and extra garden produce/unwanted mean roosters/samples of homegrown beef. Unless of course they come (unannounced) when I am not there. In which case, I will not be there to pay them. It’s a vicious circle
Showing up early for all the goodies may mean you have to wait
ETA: we have finally found that scheduling 3 visits months in advance does actually solve the “why won’t you call us back when we’re trying to make an appointment” problem. And, everyone has managed to remember the appointment (give or take an hour)