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This is not legal advice, just my own opinion from reading many COTH trainwrecks.
First, do NOT express your (however justified) upset in ANY identifiable form on the internet. You’ve done fine here, just don’t ‘out’ anyone period. Posting details on the internet is not something you can ever take back.
Second, keep photos and detailed records of everything that is going on. Your expenses, your time (also an expense), supplies, vet expenses to return the horse to health.
Third, get good legal advice. Start with Sister-in-law, and if need be have her refer you to someone else.
Leaser may very well be sorry. Best to not make her angry and emotional. Do your darndest to keep emotion out of interactions, because what would probably be best, is to have leaser pay for the damages caused by breach of contract and WANT to pay for damages, not do you harm out of anger, retribution, etc.
If you can approach it as, ‘Of course you’re sorry, of course you feel awful for the horse. This is what needs to be done, what you agreed to do when you signed the papers to lease him.’ THIS is what you are obligated to do…
I know you’re beyond upset now. But the best (for the horse, for you, and for the leaser) thing would be to get the horse better, and expenses paid for, and forgive going forward knowing that the leaser was both repentant and financially responsible for what happened.[/QUOTE]
Good advice and I’ve seen many a trainwreck here. Yes, very emotional because I feel betrayed and feel for my poor guy because he was within 3.5 hours of me and this could totally have been prevented
Not planning on outing these people but I do need to recover substantial vet bills incurred for the past few days. Very unfortunate and unnecessary.