I don’t believe that Ladyj79 is “utterly rude”. However, you seem to feel utterly entitled.
Do you actually think It’s terribly rude for people to expect you to use your own fingers to google the subject, or even worse, to actually expect that you might bother to read even part of this thread if you are truly interested in the subject ? Granted it is a long thread but you needn’t read much of it to get the gist.
Oh those rude people who aren’t eager to do everything for you because you can’t be bothered to do it for yourself. Because you say that you are “lazy”.
Just think for a minute about how that attitude might easily rub people the wrong way. It may just be a very unfortunate choice of words on your part, or it may be that you don’t care enough about the subject to lift a finger.
It’s difficult to read people’s motivation on the web and It’s a rather serious subject, so that is why you received the negative reaction that you did.