Well our first show was delayed due to hoof/farrier issues but luckily there was another schooling show in the area so I was able to get him off the property prior to the show later this week.
I started him in the .6 m, they had a warm up class option where you could go in and jump any jumps you wanted for 90 seconds. I was going to do the first course but he walked in and his eyes bugged out of his head. He stopped “at the first jump” (about 5 strides out). I just let him trot and then canter a lap around, got him over the first one (told him he was the best boy ever), got to the second one, he again refused, I let him take a moment and came back and jumped that (again, lots and lots of praise) and time was up. I had no idea what to expect from him going back for the first class but was just hoping to at-least get him over those two jumps. He was a little unsure to the first jump but once he got over that his confidence just grew exponentially and he jumped around the entire course (I did all the adds because I really wanted to ride him to the base of each jump). I had him entered in one class at .7 and was on the fence but decided to give it a shot and he went in and marched around so confidently, and got the step all around. I don’t know if anyone has ever been more proud of a 28 time fault jumper round .
Overall it was such a great confidence building experience (for both of us, it was my first show in 12 years and first show totally solo). I will admit that I have become a bit of an overprotective and obsessive horse mom and was so worried that he would be anxious and unhappy about the whole experience but he was so good (*as long as I stayed within 2 ft of him - my husband had to get a crash course on show entries to handle the office side of things ).
Here’s the video of our .7 course, obviously not perfect but also hard to believe that less than an hour before this he didn’t want to get near a jump:
https://youtube.com/shorts/zOwbcMlXI1k?si=jWyeso6rfvbHN7-v
And pictures of my handsome guy: