I feel like maybe I have the best of both worlds or maybe the worst of both?
I have four horses at home (two boarders, two are mine). One of my personal horses is my elderly 30 year old that needs soaked feed but doesn’t like to be stalled which started to prevent issues in a traditional boarding situation. She can no longer hold her own in an outdoor board scenario, even being grained but she paces nonstop if stalled.
So she was one of the original reasons we purchased our farmette. This place is and has been a fixer upper but everything we’ve set up is to create ease of handling for horse chores and we keep improving and doing most of the work ourselves. The stalls are dutch doors/in and out. I have automatic waterers inside and out to cut down on time doing waters.
All pastures and drylots are connected via gates so we don’t have to handle horses to move them around.
We built an attached haybarn so I can bring in more hay and we now can store bulk shavings in a gravity box which has cut down our shavings costs by $200/month.
My old lady is happy and doing fabulous.
But I also have my show horse boarded because I don’t have an arena at home. The plus side is she’s boarded just a couple houses down on the same road with my coach. This has been a built in support with helping network for hay, helping lend equipment, covering in case of emergencies etc. It of course goes both ways!
I also have one of her employees clean my stalls a couple times a week and pick out the dry lot as well. The money had been worth it as it means I cut down the time and often go ride on those evenings instead and I’ll often so some of the other chores like scrubbing out waterers or dusting instead of picking stalls so I still am trying to use my time effectively.
The cost of our farmette is definitely about the cost of a home anywhere near the city in which I work. I have about a half hour commute each way but I do try and bundle going to the store, running errands, etc all in while I’m in town.
But I’m very thankful to so far have a pretty comfortable setup at this point in my life. I imagine as we age and want to travel more, we will reconsider but for now we enjoy the work and sweat equity.