I always sit on the bight, although that is much more of a juggling placement act with the apron. My marathon reins came with the pinky loop and I thought I’d give it a try. Yeah, 5 minutes later when the rein got looped around the brake I stopped with that foolishness!
However when it comes to grip, I improved that considerably by changing up my reins! Marathon reins are Ideal anti-slip reins (rubberized webbing) AND I took the Nunn Finer rubber keepers ( https://www.nunnfiner.com/Easiest-Keepers-Yet-p/keepers.htm ) and used them to make rein stops to them. They make a great rein even greater. My marathon gloves are just SSG all weather because they come in purple and if you have seen our marathon outfits, you know we are VERY serious about our matchy-matchy game.
Dressage/cones reins are brand new and were used in competition for the first time last weekend. All leather with beautiful leather rein stops. I got them from Camptown Harness. She doesn’t have a pic up but a friend has them and they were lovely. I switched from a camel jacket to a dark brown one, and once I did that I started using the dark brown RSL gloves in dressage instead of the more traditional deerskin ones. They look better and I surely like them more (especially with the new reins)