Why are some people so defensive? If the magazine article doesn’t apply to you, turn the page! For example, Canticle writes, “Her ‘advice’ was only applicable to 1-2% of dressage riders.” How do you KNOW that? I know a lot of adult amateurs who are ambitious, work hard, trade up their horses so they can continue to improve and progress. Don’t put a glass celing above all of us AAs – some of us do want to ride at FEI!!!
As an adult amateur, I understand what Cindy Sydnor is saying. It’s why I drive a Saturn coupe that I bought used from my mom and it now has 207,000 miles on it. It’s why my horses get new shoes, and I rarely do, it’s why my husband and I rarly eat out, but have frozen pizza at home, etc. etc. We all have priorities, and I’d rather put it toward my horses and my goals because…as I have learned over the years, “Good horses make good riders.” Yes, any horse can “do” dressage, but if someone has goals to move along at a reasonable learning pace, one needs to do it on an appropriate horse. (And I’m talking about after one is no longer a “beginner” rider; when we first start dressage, we need a safe, sound, sensible, calm partner.)
When I finally got to the point in my riding life when I wasn’t water skiing on my horse’s mouth and had a somewhat stable seat, my trainer and friends put me on their horses and, let me tell you, the light bulb went off in my head. What a difference to sit on a horse that is more appropriate for my goals! It was an incredible high. I’m sure the same feeling would be had if I sat on a top cutting horse. (And if I was interested in cutting and reached a certain point in my riding, you can bet I would be researching bloodlines and finding a horse that could really, really teach me to be the best I could be in that sport.)
Sure, there is satisfaction in improving “any” horse in dressage. But…do I want to spend years getting a horse that isn’t “suitable” for my dressage goals to feel more uphill when the timeframe would be shortened with a horse that is built for the job? I’ve already “been there, done that” on the “any” horse – and learned some bad riding habits. I stuck too long with horses because I was sentimental – I “loved” the horse; I spent too many years with a horse that, even though my trainer had doubts, I was stubbornly foolish enough to think I could do it. I have ridden for more years that I want to admit, and it is a HUGE difference to sit on a horse that has been bred for the job, and I thank my trainer and friends in the past for giving me the opportunity to feel the difference between a horse that struggles to do the “job” and one that just “can”. (And I’ve ridden warmbloods that are not suitable for dressage either, so don’t assume I’m bashing non-WBs. I’ve owned QHs, QH crosses, WBs, WB/TBs… I’m simply talking about appropriate for one’s dressage goals.)
Again, if Cindy’s article doesn’t apply to some of you or doesn’t fit with your philosophy, ignore it. I find the years I’m spending on this earth way, way too short. And since I’m not blessed with natural talent and got into this sport when I was an adult, I want to learn correctly as quickly as I can.
I’m sure my mom wished I could have been a concert pianist. I had piano lessons from grade school through college…even played in a jazz band. But it just wasn’t my forte…no matter how much my mom “rode” me to practice, it wasn’t going to happen. Same with some horses. After a point, it just isn’t going to happen with them, and then they need to go on to someone else to teach them that part of the journey, and I need to move on so I can obtain my personal goals. (Now if only I had gotten RIDING lessons when I was a kid instead of piano. Heck, I might be in the Olympics! : - ) Well, maybe not, but I do think that would have been more “appropriate” for my aptitude and enjoyment than the hours spent practicing scales…)