Great weekend at River Glen

Um. Wow. I am sorry for you that you are so angry.

I just want to clarify something. I am not volunteering so I can show. The likeliness of me showing anytime in the near future (years) is none. I can promise that Covid is not stopping me or changing my ability to show. What I like to do with my horse is just enjoy riding and try some new things. If I ever event it will be the lowest intro level possible.
My willingness to volunteer is because horse sports, even those I do not personally participate in, require lots of volunteers. I appreciate the volunteers in life that make things I want to do happen, so volunteering myself seems like the right thing to do.

Do I think the rule that mask always is over kill? Most certainly.
But a black and white rule makes things much easier for everyone to follow, so that part makes total sense to me.

Thankfully no one is requiring you to show or volunteer so none of this horrible mask wearing requirement will cause you any discomfort.

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There is a lot of anger in this post. The virus is out of control in the United States. Most other first world countries have it under control, it has been shown that mask wearing is a big part of that. I think wearing a mask is a stupid hill to die on. If it lets us get back to a semblance of normal and be able to hold shows and events, I just don’t see a mask being worth the level of angst and anger you have written in your post. Quite frankly I find wearing a bra more uncomfortable at times. YMMV.

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Most of your post I am going to leave alone. But I will address this. Every time I throw my leg over my saddle I am accepting risk - for myself and my horse. Yes, there are people who love me and who may be sad if I was gone, but I have no dependents (other than the horse, and there are provisions for her should that be required), so when I choose to undertake a riskier behaviour for myself, I’m not putting another person on the line and it’s my choice to make. (Again, leaving aside my position on things I’ve talked about here before, like making a genuinely irresponsible choice on horseback that exposes the horse/sport/organizers/course designer/whatever to more harm/heartache/lawsuits than they deserved, etc).

Conversely, I live with someone who had a liver transplant last year. My riding coach is in his eighties. My parents have chronic health conditions. I’m lucky enough to still have grandparents. I am highly unlikely to die from this thing. But I am not the person I am worried about. It is unacceptable to me that one day the answer to “What happened to that person you love?” could be “Me. I brought some COVID over to visit and I happened to them.” I’m not going to be responsible for someone’s death if I can absolutely help it. And I recognize that this is new, which means the science is far from conclusive on it, and what could help stop it or cure it is uncertain and frankly likely to change as we learn more. So yes, if someone asks me to do a trivial thing in the hopes that it may help people not to die, I’m going to do it. And if that means wearing a mask, or singing a song, or hopping on one leg, fine. My ego isn’t so big that I must avoid every personal inconvenience unless the Nobel Committee themselves will prove it’s worth my time.

As for my mental health, I’ve got no complaints, largely because I don’t let things like a piece of fabric on my face get my blood pressure up.

^^^ Best and most accurate post I’ve read in weeks. 10/10.

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The second you called people “sheep”, you lost all credibility. You sound like a conspiracy theorist loony tune.

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Wow. Just. Wow.

100%
i ALWAYS find wearing a bra more uncomfortable than wearing a mask. I hate bras with a passion, and hate that I have to wear one to avoid being too nipple- forward. I hardly even notice the mask anymore.

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Try reading again for comprehension.

Subk, I <3 you!

It was awesome to get my USEA magazine in the mail yesterday. As much as I read, there were THREE times where it said “wear a mask when unable to maintain 6 feet of distance.”