I love when they invent something to be hyper correct. Like not just back up while I pour the mash, but actually look the other way. Maresy will tilt her head slightly to make it even easier to do up the rope halter if she really wants to come in or out. I love seeing these tiny inventions that show they are really trying to extrapolate good behavior.
Dodge has told me that hubby letās him eat the barley out of the saucepan or carrot out of his hand while walking from the kitchen to the laundry outside of the house with the barley or carrots.
The first time I did that walk he took barley out of the saucepan with me saying no and growling. Talk about rude. I was taken by surprise as Dodge is really quite mellow and not rude at all.
After that I was ready for him. He now only nickers for it, however I am totally immune. He is not allowed to have his hooves on the concrete outside the laundry while I am making the feeds.
The last time before last I took the carrots, so nickering that was ignored and while I was in the laundry head and neck stretched and muzzle on my shoulder. I immediately waggled my finger back and forth and said back. I had to do it a second time, the third time I was putting water in the feeds with the laundry hose when he stepped on it again. I said back and sprayed the water in his face.
Now he calmly continues to graze away from the laundry while I make the feeds.
I have a friend who owns a Friesian. We were riding together one day, and my Highland was happy and relaxed, trundling along the trail with his head roughly level with his withers. Friend asked, āIs it normal for him to hold his head that low?ā
I like to work with Greg Eliel. I have learned so much to help my past horse and my current horse. Greg wants them to work from behind while being soft in you hand. The horse should also be supple laterally as well.
Everything I have done on the ground makes my horse better under saddle. My current horse really benefits from ground work when heās having an A.D.D. day. I donāt need to do much but it seems to reset his brain. Heās an OTTB who tends to be tight in his shoulders so I focus on shoulder movements to help loosen him I do notice the difference. My other horse was lazy behind so I did more to engage the hind legs.
It takes practice. I go to the clinics to participate and/or audit. I ask questions. I am not afraid to ask Greg to show me how to do something. I find him to be a great teacher.
I saw a lot of discussion about gates and stall doors. There is this great exercise Greg has us do with walking the horse through two barrels. It will improve going through any space with your horse.
Mine was such a jerk at the mounting block, we spent forever training him to circle and park so you could get on. Clicker training did the trick! But anyway now on the lunge, when you try to halt him, heāll amble over, make a tight left circle around you, and only come to a stop when heās parked in position for you to get on
Another Greg fan here, although itās been at least 6 years since Iāve done a clinic with him. Heād be sad that I never really figured out 100% for good getting my mare loading and unloading from the trailer calmly, although for anything in the past year or two, Iād say that backing out of a trailer causes her enough pain that she doesnāt want to go on. (And thatās fine; sheās retired and boarded, and BO knows sheās on a no-code WRT transporting for emergency surgery.) The two barrels were also a challenge.
Anyway, thanks to everyone on this thread. By New England dressage barn standards, my mare has excellent ground manners, in that she wonāt try to go over the top of you, doesnāt need a chain, doesnāt kick or bite people, and itās easy to keep her attention most of the time.
BUT she can be a b*itch with her shoulder at times. And thanks to reading this thread, I rediscovered the correct way (in her mind) to get her to move sideways away from me. Iām way more relaxed, leading her on a longer, slack rope, etc. Working on head down again and we will get there even at this stage in her life.
You can have a slack shorter rein. I am not saying yours is too long, however for others reading, the lead rope can be too long. A longer rein if they play and kick out, you can be kicked. My stepfather never learned and had his femur broken twice by 2 different horses several years apart.
The English way is to lead at the shoulder, if something untoward does happen and they push you away with the shoulder you are then out of danger.
I was very lucky at a work place leading a mare back to the paddock and I was at her shoulder. She tried to throw herself down on top of me. Because of where I was leading her she actually pushed me over and landed beside me. I got her up and through the gate and let her go.
The bully manager came over and started going off because I hadnāt put her rug on. I said I let her go as she tried to throw herself on top of me. The way she immediately shut up and left, I knew this was not the first time she had tried it and I was not told.
A longer rein and the horse is behind you, they can trip and fall on you as they are out of your sight.
Next to you they can charge away and then their hind quarters are towards you, they can rear and be above you.
Mine usually do not have a hater on and walk beside me, not behind or in front of me. With a halter on they are beside me, the lead is loose but not long.
Another time it was good I was at the shoulder and had a shorter rein, as my youngster came through a gate, he wanted to play with the horse near and reared up to jump on him to play.
I was able to pull him back and down off the other horse without having to gather a longer rein first. I said no and halt. He stood and he was praised.
I can not emphasise enough how much praise should be used in training.
A huge component of good groundwork (and perhaps good horsemanship) is to have a horse so mentally with you, and you so mentally with the horse, that thereās no amount of playing or spooking that results in the horse coming into your bubble of personal space. I know one should never say never, but youād be surprised how few people are exacting enough and consistent enough with this bit of training on the ground. And youād be surprised how safe and pleasant things can be if horses (and people) are held to this high of a standard.
IME, people require less of horses on the ground in English World than they do in Western World. Thatās somewhere between too bad, unnecessary and unsafe. I can count on one hand the number of times I have ever been hurt on the ground by a horse this way in my 45 years of horsing. I can tell you that in each of those times, that horseās mind was āgoneā from me and that they were already quite reactive well before one of their body parts made contact with mine. Lots of that was luck and some good, basic advice that horses need to be taught to be pretty polite on the ground until, perhaps 10 years ago, I learned from some good Western horseman a level of training on the ground I hadnāt known before. Iād no sooner go back to what I was doing before than I would abandon the goal of ever-improving riding.
IME, thereās a lot of badly-done ground work out there, much of it on video. Iām not sure there is quite as much really elegant, soft good ground work around, but you can recognize it if you already have the benefit of some education. Donāt mistake any ground work done badly for the best of what that style can do.
I think that tippy-top horsemen in English and Western disciplines actually want the same things, both in their horsesā education, posture and balance. I think they donāt do anything on the ground that does have a pay-off for people, either in the sense that it makes the horse more tractable or thoughtful and attentive to his handler, or in the sense that it relates to work under saddle.
What I see English (and perhaps Dressagers especially) is really misunderstanding how Western World views lightness in the hand, first as it relates to things on the ground and then to the philosophy of bitting (these are profoundly different between, say, the Dutch-German way of getting a horse to Grand Prix) and the Vaquero way of making up a bridle horse. But I do think that both high-end groups re-converge in the sense of the uphill posture theyād like their horses to hold, and those horsesā incredible rideability.
If you find yourself thinking some kind of ground work is bad, you might want to ask yourself if you are just seeing a shitty version of it, or if you know enough about the rest of that disciplineās training philosophy to judge.
I had the epiphany watching BB the other day that most people look at the flags, the waving or wiggling ropes, and they see that as ādirectingā the horse. They donāt realize that those are the backups for a horse that has missed the cue. The real signal to the horse is moving your hand.
Thatās lightness.
Signal vs contact would be a fascinating discussion but I donāt know where to have it.
I donāt leave the lead rope really long, just have enough slack that we arenāt tugging on each other, so if she starts tugging on me (grass can do this!) I know right away. Also keep the bight of the rope gently looped in my hand and reel her in/reel her out as necessary.
I normally lead her with her head next to me, but on a narrow trail have the verbal command āfollowā which she understands to mean get behind me. How far behind is still a work in progress.
(I use a lot of verbal commands. Iām no expert, just figuring out what works for us. And yes, I user +R, which is generally frowned upon in NH circles, but have seen others get great results.)
The rope-handling is not super easy for me because I have one hand that just doesnāt work very well. A heavy yacht cord lead rope helps with grip, but can be un-subtle. I am working on being lighter.
Really everything we do is a work in progress. I take her for walks and she seems to enjoy it. This is from yesterday; we were checking out a trail that may be extended to reach a second trail, which would turn one of our out-and-back walks from the barn into a loop.
Or they plumb run over you with the shoulder. Iāve never had one āknock me out of the wayā in a way that didnāt mean I was on the ground or very close to such. And then they are right on top of you anyway. I was taught to lead this way and got creamed a number of times, as well as got stomped on. Maybe those army men are quicker with their feet than I am. Iām also not sure how well some of the taller ones can see you in that close to the shoulder.
I finally learned and now prefer the western way. I like the horse well out of my space, and behind me a fair amount, plus slightly to the right. I keep them in my peripheral. Hard to explain. Following me but not driving me - and you do have to make sure that the bold ones understand that, and I do that by keeping my bubble large.
Interestingly, this causes even the ājiggy pull youā types to relax. We had one here that would spook through every doorway. Now, with him managing his own space, he walks calmly with his head down. Heāll still drag someone if they insist on walking at his head or his shoulder. He particularly enjoys spinning around those people like a top. I back him out into his space, his head comes down, and he walks like a lamb.
If they do spook straight forward, Iāve got enough time to get out of the way and most of them will do their best to avoid me. If they do spook they spook around my bubble. My bubble is VERY big and I maintain that closely when leading. A step into the bubble means a big step back from them.
My horse will come to attention and be ready to move, or know she should stay parked based on whether I raise or lower my hand. The social contract we have is that she will never have to feel me on the end of the rope if she takes responsibility for watching me and feeling what the weight of the yacht rope is telling her about where Iād like the front of her personal bubble or her head to be. She is an extremely sensitive horse who really doesnāt want her body touched except as she directs (or discovers that she likes it), so deal works out great for both of us. But the kind of training that gives her a say in how hard or soft I touch her is what makes it worth paying attention to my subtle cues.
I think most horses can be made this attentive, but lots and lots of them have been made dull and accepting by loud, unpredictable handling. Itās akin to learned helplessness from a kind and tolerant animal. I will say that my gelding, who is both unambitious and a tad insecure, has a harder time remembering that heās got to be so āon his gameā all the time. He needs more reminders, though I am hoping that some day he gets as good as my mare.
Iām not expert nor well-trained with the flag. Sometimes, when watching clinics, I think people are being really, really āloudā with the flag. If the goal is to desensitize a pretty green horse or to really get after a horse who thought he could ignore a softer signal (or two), I get it. But I donāt think one horse should require too much whipping of the flag around⦠and I seem to hear lots of that in a ring full of people.
I could be wrong, but for anything other than purposely creating a loud stimulus that youād also like to teach the horse to ignore, I think of the flag as an extension of the bight of the rope Iād normally use. So that flag should get slower and move less if Iām doing my training right, I would assume. But my practice and education has mainly been with a 14ā yacht rope tied to a rope halter. So between that and how I use my body and position, I can get pretty āloudā with a horse as need by and send him scurrying it a bit.
If I were doing this all day and were better at handling that long rope with one hand, I think I could come to appreciate the flag. It would let me extend my reach faster and easier than would be possible with just a rope.
Along the other topic of bitting and training, I am always looking for people who understand the signal vs. contact philosophy of bitting. My confession is that even with a snaffle, I always ride a horse with the sense of teaching him/her a consistent, softest-possible set of signals. I think Iām not a deeply-educated enough dressage rider to understand how/why such unwavering contact with the riderās (imperfect) hand is something a horse would want. I mean to ask people who know, but it is a question that makes dressagers defensive, it seems.
I was so excited to read this! I was going to quote pieces but then I was like - nope, Iāll just reply to the whole thing.
I have a few horses that I use the flag with, and a few horses that I donāt. I use the flag with those that I feel like need the visual - those who are used to tuning out the humans - but otherwise I also use the bight of the lead. I also use the flag on one who is dead quiet but HATED the flag. He is an odd bird though - ex-wp horse that you could beat with the end of the popper (not that Iād beat him - but you know what I mean) and heād barely move. I think he went āinwardā and the flag brings the real āhimā out - and the real him can be very exciting. So weāve been using it to break patterns. Interestingly, heās not a spooky guy but that flag really gets him.
The idea I think is that you use the hand/body language and donāt have to get to the flag/bight. If I have to get to the bight or flag after Iāve worked one for awhile it usually means that Iām out of position and donāt want to have them get confused. Getting out of position is so easy (for instance, being late on changing hands). As a mere mortal, Iām still working on this.
Contact for me is such a tricky thing. When I first started riding, I rode bareback a flat halter with two lead ropes as reins. Signal was the only thing I had - you canāt really ride in a flat halter on contact in any measurable sense and ever hope to stop your horse. I did a brief stint in eventing, but then I then went h/j the era of loose floaty reins and nose poking. That was easy and very signal-oriented. I used exercises to slow them down, and even the initial pullers learned to go on a loose rein.
So when I first encountered dressage for real, I kept asking āhow much weight do you want in the reinsā and my instructor at the time told me a pound per handā¦about the weight of a bag of sugar. Thatāsā¦a lot of weight on those sensitive tissues. During those lessons I was consistently yelled at for āthrowing the horse awayā after I had achieved ācontactā (I thought I was releasing - but thatās neither here nor there). Iām probably not a very good dressager because clearly Iām missing something. They also wanted me to use those side reins with donutsā¦those things bounce on the mouth! What the heck?
Anyway, Iām back on the western side of things now. I still use the dressage exercises (shoulder in, leg yields, TOF, TOH, etc. etc.) but seek to do it in a signal sort of manner. Most of the time I think the bridle is just there as ābackupā the same way the flag would be. My riding comes from my body and occasionally my voice. My goal is to help my horses learn to carry themselves. I guess thatās the same as upper level dressage, but I donāt understand how carrying them at the lower levels translates to them suddenly getting light at the upper levels.
What a shame your instructor told you that and did not explain about when to give.
If the horse gets heavy and you give you teach the horse to be heavy and lean.
Unfortunately IMHO, the donuts on sidereins do the same thing. The horse pulls, the donut gives, the horse has been taught to pull. Which is very controversial for me to say.
There is another way, the trouble is finding a great instructor.
However you seem to be very happy in Western, so you will excel there.
I went through 3 of them who all said similar things before I gave up Perhaps there are some somewhere who arenāt teaching this āheavinessā, but they sure donāt seem to be around my area.
In truth - Iām more comfortable in a western saddle anyway so itās all good. For some reason even the deep seated Wade-style is more comfortable on my hips. The stirrup bars arenāt set forward or anything, might just be enough leather to keep me up a bit. My horses seem more comfortable too, so weāll roll that way.
I hate country music though, so that part is tough.
Iām a dressage rider who has moved her horses over to western bitting and aims to ride them with the end goal of the bit being a signal bit, vs strong direct contact. We (myself and my horses) have all gotten tired of the strong contact. It is a journey and requires relearning what contact should be. I suck at it most days, and struggle to verbalize it. And boy do you have to use your leg and seat. But I know it when I feel āitā. And āitā is usually from my seat into my hand, and the hand can become light.
Iāll have more thoughts in a year or two, I think.
Youāve said, āthe gate is wider when itās closing,ā three times now. Not any gate I am familiar with. I have no idea what this means, other than it defies the laws of physics. Can you elaborate?