@SmlHpy1 —keep in mind that Amish are like everyone else --I am sure you’ve had great neighbors and some not so great neighbors. I have found Amish folks to be as diverse as any other group of people --some are nice, some are not. However, the Amish wear I live in Elkhart IN are generally not farmers --they work in the RV industry doing woodworking and manufacturing. In chatting with my farrier who lives near a community (and has Amish neighbors) the Amish who work in factories compared to the Amish who live near him are more receptive to English people --like me! After all, factory-working Amish have to work daily with English --the “cloistered” Amish who only see the members of their own community, are perhaps more insular. Or it could just be that I have four great neighbors --luck of the draw!
I don’t think I’ve ever had a bad Amish neighbor --just some more stand-offish than others —Mike --who does share a property line with me has only been over one time in 4 years to ask if he could hunt my property. And I’ve never spoken to his wife Alice. On the other hand, the three other Amish neighbors told me Mike “keeps to himself” --the others buy a load of hay together (semi) and help each other unload and stack on individual farms --one said that Mike, “isn’t interested” in doing that. So maybe Mike just likes his own company! FYI I don’t share hay as I feed alfalfa and the Amish feed grass hay. All good.