If it’s THAT IMPORTANT and you like a look so much, why not grow out your hair? I like being able to do buns and updos, so I don’t cut my hair short, I don’t cut up tube socks to make a falsie. If you’re putting panty hose on your head and not planning to rob a convenience store, you are making dubious fashion choices. There is no reason on Earth, especially given how awful hunter hair looks with modern helmets, for someone to feel they have to resort to nineteenth-century-style hairdressing fakery if they have short hair where at most a hairnet and some gel would do the job. Poofing and puffing creates a lot more opportunities for escapees (believe me, between dance and having to wear a hairnet around food, I have plenty of experience and the best way to control flyaways is a tight pull and if necessary styling products under the net.) People roll their eyes at the idea this such a necessary part of the look women with shorter hair should resort to bizarre fakery. If you like it and don’t think it looks absurd on you, keep your hair in a way you can do it.
Again, when MEN start wearing hunter hair with No Nonsense pinned to their head, it might be a legitimate worry.