[QUOTE=RedHorses;8712857]
This might not help now, but might prevent a relapse later. Years ago I read something that talked about horse memory - they have very strong associative memory, but it isn’t good at extrapolating very far. Basically if the horse always gets A, B, C, D, E, etc he will associate B with A very strongly, C with A less strongly, and by the time you get to E there is no association with A.
In practical terms if you catch the horse (A) and give him a carrot (B) then take him into the barn © and put him in his stall with a handful of feed (D) while you get your grooming kit and tack out, then by the time you get to grooming (E) which means tacking up (F) which means riding work (G) you have him so far from A that the good things (B and D) are what he thinks when you go to catch him (A).
That’s for once you get past the catching issue, but is effectively what you are trying to do - separate catching from riding.
If you are off now, can you go out at turn in time and bring him in yourself? It might be a way to start changing his attitude.[/QUOTE]
So well described!
Put days into that equation as well. Tomorrow it will be well remembered; day after a bit less so; additional fade each and every day. A big treat that lasts for several minutes can help the memory last longer, as well.
I’ve had my share of hard-catches, although all of mine except the current one did learn to come at call.
So many people say “he/she associates being caught with work”. That probably is NOT it, unless you saddle up in pasture as soon as the halter is on. Just the time walking back to the barn is enough to disassociate with what happens in the barn.
That also means that the rubbing and unmounted time is not strongly associated with being caught, either.
Put aside your human analysis of why a human would be behaving this way, including “nanny-nanny-boo-boo”. Horses LOOK as if that is what is going on, compared with human behavior. But they really do not have that set of brain cells. The misinterpretation leads to a great deal of human frustration, because then the humans are working on the wrong problem, and the horse doesn’t respond so much.
You’ve gotten some great advice so far. I will add that I can easily approach one particular horse if I never, ever turn my body toward him … I back up to him, or else walk by him with the back of my shoulder angled toward him. He’s just over-reactive and easily gets his adrenaline up, it’s instinctive more than deliberate. The cell phone camera turned for a selfie lets me see what he’s doing behind me, and then my eyes are never toward him and he’s easy to approach. He doesn’t mind being caught. He instinctively alarms at being stalked.
Also, animals, and especially prey animals, are very aware and sensitive to eyes. A steady gaze is what a predator does just before the rush to catch the prey. Many horses easily desensitize to that gaze in humans, but some not so much. Don’t look directly at a horse being hard to catch. If you are wearing sunglasses, try removing them until horse is caught. Some pick up even an instant’s glance, because that’s how some predators stalk and then the rush to catch.
Definitely what others have said about using your own body language to reward turning toward you. Your eyes are part of that as well, look down or away as part of the reward for coming toward you.
I also made a deal with Spooky’s best friend - help me catch Spooky and get horse cookies. As soon as Spooky is wearing a halter, treats for both, but not till then. No Spooky catch, no goodies. The best friend is a lot saner than Spooky and bought into this deal almost right away. I need to swap their brains. :winkgrin:
Herd-bound - a longe whip, or a 10 foot lead rope, and know how to use it to cut an individual out of the herd. (And keep yourself safe from treat monsters.) I’ve become adept at moving Spooky out of the herd, so Spook and I can do our treat thing on the perimeter without the other horses. That means sometimes directing herd members as well. Spooky keeps diving into the herd, but that means the whole herd has to move until I maneuver Spooky out of it again. They quickly realized that abandoning Spooky to the human means they won’t be bothered. Now, when they see me, they drop Spooks like a hot rock. Spooks is suddenly a lot more interested in the horse treats than the herd! It’s kind of scary to see that the herd realizes that sometimes a sacrifice is necessary to get rid of a predator. :eek:
Oh, and … in spite of your wish for some peaceful horse time, like any other animal behavior work, you’ve got to make up your mind that “today I will take whatever time it takes, do whatever it takes, to get the result”. The more days like that, the faster the results. Think of it as your exercise program. Think of all the character you will build. Nobody will have as much character as you! :winkgrin:
Since your horse has been an easy catch in the past, that should help getting him back to that status. But if you don’t come out often you need a very, very strong goodness/treat memory immediately after his halter is on to help it stick. And only your horse - no other horse gets it, unless you have to reward maybe one other horse for helping you catch. Not the group, they will start competing with each other. It’s dangerous to have the herd fighting over treats all around you.
I sympathize with your situation. It isn’t fun when a little horse-time is such a pain.