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So ~ 50% of his foals will be grey (this increases if he’s bred to grey mares, obviously)[/QUOTE]
I’m not an expert on this by any means, but I believe this really means that there is a 50/50 chance that any one foal will be grey - not necessarily that 50% of the foals WILL be grey. A heterozygous grey stallion could theoretically throw NO grey foals, or ALL grey foals. I know heterozygous grey stallions that fall into each category - one sired 5 foals before being gelded, and none turned grey, and another sired 3 foals before dying in a freak accident at 4 years of age, and all of the foals turned grey (and were from non-grey mares).
It is too bad the OP doesn’t want to consider frozen, because Royal Diamond throws a VERY high percentage of grey foals, even though he is not homozygous for the grey gene.
A few grey dressage stallions in the U.S. to consider might be Coco Cavalli, Galeno Tyme, and Stonefire. None of them are homozygous for grey, but Stonefire was by a grey sire, out of a dam with a grey sire. There is also Herzzauber, who is grey by a grey sire from a grey dam. I am not sure he is still breeding, though. He is also in Canada - not the U.S.