Having never owned a horse, my fantasy has almost always been of buying one minus the money concerns lol!
When I was a kid, I had the fantasy that my parents drove me to the barn and presented me with my present- usually the lesson horse I was currently crushing on.
Now that I’m older, I know enough to want the selection process as part of my fantasy, thankyouverymuch. So when I’m stressed and can’t sleep, I imagine going out to various farms with my trainer and MrB, and trying out several horses. If I’m particularly stressed and need an even more outlandish mental escape, the horse shopping occurs in Ireland…
None of the above need include the particulars of pre purchase vetting, conformation/health quirks/maintenance, price negotiations. Just many very nice horses, and the excitement of forging a new relationship with one of them
Also, sometimes when I’m looking out my windows, I close my eyes and pretend the horse I ride is either in our (currently useless and empty) barn or in the field grazing.