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I totally gripped with the reins which creates this vicious loop of tension. When we are working in the arena alone it’s a much smaller issue, but she was really really quick and tense when we were working in the indoor with 5 other horses the other night. I assume it’s because she was nervous. I reacted wrong by cranking her down to a halt to correct her, which made her defiant and more anxious and created a whole vicious circle. I tried putting her on a small circle when she rushed and that did actually seem to help. I will work on the trot walk transitions tonight and see where that gets us :)[/QUOTE]
It sounds like she is just distracted/excited from the prospect of riding with others and has some baby ADD going on. The goal here should be to focus back on you, and I agree with the other posters above–serpentines are :encouragement:
Start with a three loop with a circle at each end (small enough to keep her focus on you). If the three loop is too easy, move to 4. If 20m circles are too big and she’s speedy/looky/evasive because she would rather look at the other horses, go to 10-15m. If she suddenly anticipates your aids for the 4 loop so she can worry about what everyone else is doing, figure 8 right now or trot-canter-trot transition. I don’t use walk-trot, sometimes it just gets them more jacked up.
If you move to go down the long side for a break and there is too much speed, shoulder-in or fore asap. Keep leg on and let her figure her own speedy legs out while moving laterally.
My only ring is a 1 acre field shared with other riders and I have a 5 year old OTTB, these exercises are sometimes all that keeps us from launching into the stratosphere.