Most of my horses have been varying degrees of hot.
My first horse was not generally hot, but unpredictable.
My next horse was hot and nervous about some things and required tact to ride.
My next horse was not hot but also required tact to ride.
My next horse was a crazy hot mess when he decided he wanted to be (and still acts that way even though he’s 19 and retired), but also lazy when he wanted to be.
My mustang is lazy and I have to build hot and forward in him.
My current pony is very forward, but not hot. It is a different kind of ride (granted, she’s got less than 30 rides on her). She’s forward, has lots of GO, always feels like she’s got somewhere to go, is quick off the leg but not reactive or spooky. So far I’m liking this kind of ride.
A friend once told me I have a calming seat when she first saw me ride a horse she knew to be hot (who is my TB that I ended up buying). I think I have a lazy butt. :lol:
ETA: Sorry, I posted quickly because I had to run out. Back to say that I think that people do like certain types of rides. Because of my aforementioned lazy butt, I like a horse that has some natural go. Crazy and unpredictable I don’t like, but a horse who is forward thinking is fun to ride. I think it can be an adjustment to get used to riding hotter horses, and if one is generally a timid rider, then it probably isn’t a good combination, especially if the horse is nervous as well. For the rider, I find what helps is a lot of self-awareness to learn how to focus and be in the moment and have a zen-like approach to riding. If you are someone who can think like that, then I think that you can work up to riding hotter horses successfully. If you are always aware of every little thing and think that the arena should clear out so you can have special space and want it to be quiet like a golf tournament, then maybe a hot horse isn’t right for you.