I know we’re bumping this up, but since it can become a real issue, no harm in answering.
Answer: not that long.
Once the buyer decides they want the horse, I expect a vetting scheduled asap. I had one woman, a DC mounted police officer, who wanted “her vet” aka the preferred mounted police vet to look at this horse for her personal use. The wait was three weeks. I said, you are welcome to have that vet, but I will not hold the horse three weeks. And I didn’t and the horse sold to someone else.
After the vetting, I expect to know almost immediately, like, the next day or two. At that point, I want full payment, arrangements for horse to leave in week or so, or start paying board, and have insurance, release and liability, etc.
Anything can go wrong, so quickly.
We had a horse vetted in Holland, one of Tops’ clients. Vetting was good, people were buying, but as horse was being exported she had to quarantined, but the next round of quarantine didn’t start for like three weeks, and we didn’t argue, but basically Tops didn’t want to be responsible (they would not be in Holland), and I was on my own at the time and I SURELY didn’t want to be responsible for 250k horse. And I had to ride her because she couldn’t be turned out or lunged. It was ulcer inducing.
If you want the horse, and it’s been vetted in a timely fashion, buy the horse. If you need to think about it for any length of time, it’s ok to tell the seller that and be clear you understand they can’t hold the horse for you while you are thinking.
I would say rather, if you aren’t ready to pull the trigger, it’s probably not the right time or right horse for you.