OP, I am your friend!!! lol well I mean I was in/am in the exact situation as your friend.
I had about $150/mth left over after bills etc, so not anything I could really “save” exactly…
I went through a rescue, found my dog, and don’t regret it for a minute!
It took me 3 months of saving to get the adoption fee together, but I did it!
Her basic needs are covered, and she has more love and attention then she could ever hope for…or ever rec’v in her little life. She was taken from a hoarder where she was 1 of 9 dogs in the apartment, into foster care where she was 1 of 4 (not bashing fosters, I love them) and was completely shut into her shell.
Being the only dog in the household is ideal for her, and even though I may not have thousands set aside “in case” doesn’t mean she or I didn’t deserve each other.
If something were to happen, god forbid, I have a max amount I am willing to pay in my head…no it isn’t very high, but it is reality. I will not sacrifice my home or DD livelihood for a dog.
Most CoTH folks will flame me for owning something I cannot possibly take care of to their standards, being “irresponsible” like they state…but she is happy, we are happy, and I don’t regret my choice for a minute!!
I say, surprise your friend and take him to the local shelters for some window shopping…or at the very least some dog time 