How often do you ride now that you have your own acreage?

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Also, real estate here is insanely expensive, so everyone I know with property is middle aged or even retired, meaning their riding time might be decreasing anyhow. The right age for mending fences and clearing brambles seems to me to be 28 or 31, but no-one that age can afford acreage here.[/QUOTE]
I vote for staying put and buying a truck & trailer. Your setup sounds great and you’ve got a great handle on the issues that having horses at home can bring. But, I will add this:

48 is the PERFECT age for clearing brambles and fixing fencing! In my 20’s & 30’s I had a complicated life, full of career, family, etc… Now, I have two horses at home and far fewer responsibilities and farmwork is both exercise and my meditation practice. I leave a rotisserie chicken and a note on the counter that says ‘Dinner’ and I’m free to sit outside all night and ponder which way to screw the insulator onto the fence post :lol:

I have about 7 neighbors who are horsewoman over 40, and they all ride frequently. Riding time, in my expensive neck of the woods, only increases with age. So, there’s that to look forward to! Keep enjoying your horse, Scribbler. :slight_smile:

I have an acreage, two horses, a full-time job, and i’m single. I ride both horses 4-5 times a week. I have a sand ring at home, and work them on the roads around here frequently as well, but all winter I haul out to ride, and keep up the same pace. I work non-stop around here it seems. Not a lot of downtime for me. But I love it, so it’s all good :slight_smile:

There really are SO many variables, there is no one answer. Having spent my life working in barns & I learn by watching, I spent two years shopping by soil maps, parcel data, & my own criteria (NOT flat, I hate mud, good soil & established natural drainage/hydrology - I’m a freshwater wildlife biologist so I can consult for myself, hee, solid neighbours, easy accessibility to the roads I travel frequently, onsite trail access, etc). I didn’t own my own horse until I was 26, but I did board him for 8 years until last March when I finally had the farm ready for him & my younger horse.

I event, so I WANT my horses on as many different kinds of footing & terrain in all types of weather as possible. I don’t like riding in arenas, don’t ever intend to build one. If grass on a slope is good enough for the best dressage rider in our sport, I think it’s going to do for me, LOL! The small slope on one end also gives me a free training boost in balance & strength with every ride, so if we go to compete in flat footing, it’s just that much easier.

Plus, yeah, my income bracket is at the bottom of those poll lists!!! And I don’t want to maintain one, I actually do have to show up at work often enough that they still send me check! So my “arena” has cost me $20 in plastic cones with dressage letters on them which I wired to spare cinder blocks…and the fuel to mow it, which I’d do anyway as part of managing that field.

I actually never intended to own a farm, b/c I knew exactly what it entailed, but after a massive trauma changed my future, I did a LOT of spreadsheets, & with two horses, it’s saving me a LOT of money & time, along with providing a good 30 years worth of future distraction to give my brain projects to deal with said trauma. I LOVE not having to start a vehicle on weekends if I don’t feel like it (I do have a truck & trailer, but truck is my daily driver, I’ve had a 2H rig ever since I bought the horse anyway).

Looking back, as I run it myself, the key was being able to design the layout myself (bought nice, established pasture & smacked a modular on it) so I could do essential chores in ten minutes or less (more like 5 – I don’t stall my horses, they do have a run-in, me & the manure fork got a divorce, heh, I am not even building stalls/barns, they’re not needed here anyway, I didn’t even use them at the last farm I boarded at, & I can make a 12’ stall in the run in with one gate).

The other #1 essential is RIDE FIRST. Always ride first! That grass/fenceline/project isn’t going anywhere & if you bought the horse to ride, then you are only shorting yourself if you don’t follow the rule.

Really, it’s all about taking the time to really sit down and plan ALL the details. Talk to friends or acquaintances in your area who have done it before. Really think about what you NEED. Do the math & don’t forget to include fuel costs for commuting & time spent driving. There’s no law requiring fancy “trimmings” like barns, $$$$$$ arenas, high-end fencing, those are all options.

Pay attention to the properties surrounding you – a large variable which brought me to this parcel was the event trainer behind me who DOES have an all-weather arena with lights on the rare occasion I have a whim, as well as a jump field & XC obstacles. On the other side is my most beloved neighbour who also has horses…and a hydraulic post driver, skidsteer, excavator & grew up in the area, so he builds & maintains our massive trail network across many private properties because he knows everyone in our rural area & he is so kind (and has all the toys plus 100-hp tractor w/ bushhog), no one says no to him!

After that, how often you ride is decided by how often you decide to ride. On a hot Carolina summer day, I can walk out my back door when it cools off at 9 pm, be at the x-ties in 30 steps, & have a nice ride without having to worry about the drive home.

I have my horse at home (which is also work–I’m a ranch hand–although I don’t own the property). I ride pretty much every night, usually just one horse but sometimes two. I’m single and have no social life, though. And horse care/ranch upkeep is part of my job. Previously I’d managed the barn where I kept my horse. There are four horses here–my TB jumper, my uncle’s cowpony, and two geriatric retirees that don’t get ridden.

The biggest things I miss are having an indoor and people to ride with. Riding alone doesn’t bother me too much except I do worry a little about riding in the remote areas of the ranch. I have a field with jumps where I do a lot of flatwork as well, and I have to ride past my grandparents’ house to get to it from the horse pasture. That way, if something happens while I’m jumping, the horse will run past their living room windows. Also riding in the winter can be managed without an indoor, but when the highlight of your week is having an ice-free space to trot a 20m circle it’s sad. I live in SD so yeah, there’s winter here.

Other things to consider are vet and farrier appointments. It’s nice having someone else around to hold your horse if necessary. I have to haul to the vet and I’ve learned to trim so it can be done at my convenience. Thankfully all the horses can go barefoot. We do a lot of our own vet work as well.

I do think in the OP’s situation (which sounds pretty great) it makes more sense to get a truck and trailer and haul out. The best thing about living on the ranch is that I have thousands of acres to ride on. Plus, like another poster mentioned, if you get your own place a truck and trailer are pretty good things to have.

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Well, your terrain will vary on that. I have to mow at least a path in order to ride, because the grass can and does get over horse-mouth-level. :slight_smile:

There is also the issue of particular weeds (which will come back a zillion times worse if you don’t mow the exact right week) and fire danger (so the death bed could come into play :wink: ).[/QUOTE]

Well, I am not ascribing that people NEVER mow their grass. But I have a lot of yard, and it takes a few hours per time to mow just the yard. I have it on more like a ten day cycle instead of a weekly cycle which would probably look more golf course-y, but takes too much time. I mow my pastures fully about once a month in the summer until August when I start letting them grow longer to establish good winter grazing, our growing cycle often stops in Sept. I am not saying people should neglect their farms. but everything doesn’t have to be perfect before you get on the horses. That is the mistake too many people make, just one more chore…and then it is dark.

And sweeping the barn aisle…I am not saying people should never ever sweep their barn aisles. I swept mine yesterday…but after I did chores, cleaned the paddocks, dumped the spreader and rode the two horses, because I still had five minutes. If something was going to go, it was going to be the aisle and not my rides or scrubbing the horse boots, etc. and not anything that really affects the horses.

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48 is the PERFECT age for clearing brambles and fixing fencing! [/QUOTE]

Okay! I’ll put it on the calendar for next year! I knew there must be some reason I haven’t been able to keep up with it…

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If you don’t set priorities on a farm, you’ll never ride. I was like that the first year or two, and it was quite frustrating. Well, no more of that!

I have two horses to ride and a mini who needs regular exercise to keep him from turning into a pork chop. If I also had to have flawless lawns and magazine-perfect flower beds and a barn aisle suitable for open heart surgery, I’d surely have a nervous breakdown in no time.

I went from riding about 8 times a day, to riding less than 8 times this year. However, my husband works away from home during the week, I have a 12 month old son, I am 7 months pregnant and I have 8 horses to look after. No arena (yet), no time. I am hoping that this changes next year though… I need my saddle time!!

And Red Barn, I totally agree with you about the nervous breakdown if you try and have everything picture perfect!! That is the reason why in the ‘down time’ from riding I am having at the moment I am trying my best to drastically reduce the area of lawn I have that needs to be mown by putting in garden beds that should theoretically manage themselves after 12 months. So I get the pretty garden with minimal effort :stuck_out_tongue:

I ride 4-5 times a week. My trainer lives literally 4 minutes away, I can see her farm in the winter when the leaves are gone. She comes over Saturday and Sunday for lessons, then I try to ride 3 times during he week. My husband rides too - we have 2 that we ride, 2 retired and 2 that a friend boards who does partial care.

Chores don’t get in the way of our riding - it’s usually the weather. Yesterday I rode, but it started pouring when my husband got home, so his mare got her mane pulled instead.

Our farm is not picture-perfect. Sometimes we ride after a quick brush and hoof pick, and sometimes the barn aisle doesn’t get swept.

I’ve started planning my weekday rides as much as possible according to the forecast instead of giving every Monday off. And sometimes a ride is 15-20 minutes.

Yeah, let’s just not talk about the landscaping. That I do neglect…I keep swearing I will get to it but with all the rain it is never dry enough for long enough when I am not doing something else more pressing this year, my landscaping is a wreck right now.

I have my 4 ponies at home and I find I ride/drive more often then when I was part boarding elsewhere…

I work my ponies almost every day. Sure, its a long day (starts at 5:45 to get stalls and barn cleaned and I’m usually in the house around 9pm after work), but to me, its worth it. I do have a sand outdoor ring and a grass ring, but no indoor so this also depends on weather. I have a truck and trailer and I go to an arena 2 x week during the winter. I rarely get to ride at home during the winter months as its dark when I get home. I try to ride on the weekends, but again, it depends on the weather.

I’m lucky that my husband is horsey and loves to cut grass. Everything is wipersnipped and grass is cut at least once or twice a week (even bought a lawn sweeper so no more “hay fields” after longer grass is cut!).

The only thing I missed was having someone to ride with - it can motivate you if you don’t have any goals (upcoming shows etc). I do have someone that comes up and rides one of my ponies which is nice. This gets at least one of my guys excercised so I don’t have to work 4 ponies each night. Gives me a little break :slight_smile: Its also nice during the winter as I woudnt be as motivated to trailer out to a farm for lessons if she wasnt there :wink:

Totally worth it to me to have horses at home, just get a truck/trailer so you can go elsewhere if needed.

Agree with those that state - make riding a priority. Otherwise you will never get to it. I have 2 horses at home, ride one 4 times a week and the other 2-3 times a week. My barn is tidy, but not super neat or spectacularly organized.

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And Red Barn, I totally agree with you about the nervous breakdown if you try and have everything picture perfect!! That is the reason why in the ‘down time’ from riding I am having at the moment I am trying my best to drastically reduce the area of lawn I have that needs to be mown by putting in garden beds that should theoretically manage themselves after 12 months. So I get the pretty garden with minimal effort :P[/QUOTE]
OMG. “Reducing the area of lawn” is like the holy grail around here.

:lol:

Pretty soon we’re going to have pastures that run right into the kitchen.

One thing that makes it a lot harder is if you have kids in the equation. If I didn’t have kids I could have a much more perfect farm and ride 4-5 a day on weekends, 2-3 a day weekdays. And if my DH did stuff on the farm. As it is, I have kids so weekends are for family, I never ride on the weekends. And DH doesn’t care for horses and farm life so all the work is on me. I am very lucky I work from home so I can ride during the week. I also don’t spend a lot of time grooming, I can strip off fly sheet, brush off, pick hooves, boot and tack up in about ten minutes. when I am done I hose off and put in stall while I ride the other horse, then put the fly sheet/boots back on and put the horses out. No lengthy hour-long grooming sessions. The fly sheets keep them pretty mud-free, plus they hate bugs and love their clothes.

In the summer, I ride at home as much as I did when boarding. Pretty much every day, and one or two horses, depending who is sound enough to ride. I only have an outdoor (in rainy SW WA) so I’m limited by that in the winter. If I could find an acceptable boarding situation for winter, I’d keep one horse there so I could keep him going, but that whole lack of acceptable boarding is why I have them at home in the first place!

As others have said, you have to prioritize and riding is a big one for me, especially with my one horse that is IR, so exercise is important for his health. And mine! I also have the help and support of a great partner, so it isn’t just me trying to do everything. We both work from home so that helps a lot too, as there isn’t a commute to deal with and no one knows you are wearing barn clothes and hay in your hair on a conference call!

Since I moved them home and had a baby, I ride exactly twice a week. When I haul to my coach’s place for lessons. Mostly work, family and farm stuff gets in the way, but also a lack of confidence to ride alone after having the kid.

I think after this baby comes, and I seriously commit to fitness again, I may change my work schedule slightly to allow 3 day a week rides. That would be my ideal.

Before baby, when I had access to thousands of miles of trails/bush out the back door, I was pretty consistently doing 4 rides a week.

If you are used to two hours out of your day to devote to your horse(s), and you have horses at home, you will feed, clean stalls, do some maintenance, drag the ring, argue with the tractor, play a round of phone tag with the farrier and then… oh look, your two hours are up. Time to reschedule!

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Okay! I’ll put it on the calendar for next year! I knew there must be some reason I haven’t been able to keep up with it…[/QUOTE]

Me too, although I still have YEARS of parenting to go. 25 done, and 5 until the last graduates. Sometimes I wonder what I was thinking…

What is this “landscaping” thing people keep mentioning? I use the bushhog to manage nice mixed forage pastures. I occasionally mow the immediate area around the front & back of the house & a path so I can walk to truck & run-in without getting 4,000 chiggers & weedeat around the foundation.

The rest is wildlife habitat (fenced horses out of stream & bottomland area as they should be), which is primarily the forest around the edges & old farm pond. You’d be surprised how well intact ecosystems will do your work for you if you manage them properly.

See how easy your life can be, LOL?

Oh yeah, and I’m a confirmed non-breeder, I like my life the way it is, ROFL. I’ve already got two chestnut money-pits that I love spending time with. Fiance was non-breeder as well (naturally, this is why we got along, ha), but unfortunately, cancer doesn’t give a crap how young you are if it wants you. Even if it hadn’t found him, though, we still would have lived childfree. So depending on your choices there, that can obviously play a deciding factor on how often you ride no matter WHERE your horses are.

I have found, though, that even though I HATE mowing (like yards, which I find completely pointless; grass = horse food), bushhogging pastures is very very good zen…I think because I enjoy work that is done for my horses, not meaningless things like houses, etc.