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Must be old fashioned training, but I always put my left hand on the horn with the reins in hand to dismount. Right hand on the swell to start swing of right leg over the cantle and step down. If horse is tall, I stop when right and left legs are together on one side of horse, move right hand to cantle, lift body slightly to get left foot kicked out of stirrup and then slide down with feet together to land beside horse.
With left hand ALWAYS on the horn, you won’t snag your belt buckle or bottom of a vest or jacket. Hand prevents stuff passing over the horn to catch there. I don’t want any kind of “lean forward” if possible, because I have seen a number of bras get hooked on the horn. This is also the reason I don’t put my left (with reins) hand on horse neck, it makes me reach/lean forward to possibly snag on the horn. I am then also off-balance, with arm reaching ahead of saddle to horse neck instead of arm straight down under my shoulder to saddle horn, for getting off straight downward.
I would not advise getting a big plate buckle since it is not going to prevent hooking the horn when you lean forward to lift up for leg swing and get ahead of horn. There just is nothing to prevent that buckle, hem of untucked shirt, jacket or even a bra from snagging the horn during such a dismount. You need your hand with arm on the horn to prevent “articles of apparel” from ever getting over the horn to catch and hang you up on the saddle.
Maybe it is a new fashion, but I was taught to hold the horn for stability, preventing my body movement from getting in the way of horse digging out on his way thru the barrels or poles. Again, clothing can’t hang up if horn is covered with a hand and arm.[/QUOTE]
This is what I do, except I always land with feet together (I’m short AND clumsy, so attempting the step down is just not my thing). And I have HUGE boobs, so not holding the horn is a guaranteed bra-getting-caught situation, lol. I made that mistake once and only once. There is no graceful way out of that situation