yes it is hard but there was nothing we could have done to prevent what happened… we just made sure our other children knew they were equally loved, respected, admired as their brother.
edited to add:
regarding saving his ashes, when one of my wife’s brother died his wife spread his ashes in the New Mexico fishing stream he loved to go to…Mark said at that time he would to be buried with his horses, so we were/are honoring his wishes
