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Okay- I feel like I have a LOT to offer here! 
I lived in the A2 area, and it was great for ease of getting to great schooling- 2 terrific venues within 20 min and Hunters Run, as well as Richland park in the state. FAB! And nice people, too.
I then moved to horsie Mecca, Tryon, NC. I only lived there for a year full time, but was there a lot, and lived right, and i mean RIGHT on the FETA trails. The town itself, however, lacks a bit of immediate cultural gratification if your spouse is not horsey. Great biking (albeit quite hilly sometimes) and hot (sometimes) and buggy (a lot of the sometimes) and poison ivy is the state flower so if you are sensitive to that, eh…its prednisone time. The riding, ah the riding…trails galore, very horse minded community, great instruction on every discipline as well as levels. FENCE has something going a lot of the time. It is really a horse persons dream. It is somewhat expensive, though.
Greenville is a hop, skip and jump away, and Asheville is too. Love both of those towns a lot. Lots to do, see and nice people. You get your music, theatre and other stimuliation from those area. Or having the great friends that I had there…I miss that part MOST of all.
I then moved to Laramie, WY…Nope. Its AWFUL for horses, even though there is an event course right in town and a great trainer, who seems to have a heart of gold as well as being pretty fantastic at her job. Boarding is awful, trailriding across the praries is great but only a few months out of the year and my horses hated every second. I actually sent my awesome horse back to live with my best friend in Tryon, as he hated it THAT much.
We then moved to Fort Collins, and I have found my home. I love it here- and for the first time ever do not have a horse in the back yard and don’t fret every two minutes about Reason. Board is rather expensive and turn out is non-existant, but that is more the norm than not. There is SO much to do in FTC, and the town itself is still a town, but has everything, (including a Trader Joes as well as Costco :winkgrin: coming soon!) There is miles and miles of bike trails that, yes, you CAN ride your horse on and we ride our bikes on safe paths to town at night for dinner and music and then ride home- its blissful.
There are xc jumps at Lory State Park I have not been there yet… and the CO Horse park is about 2 hrs away I have not been there yet. I ride my young horse down a very busy road for about 1/2 mile to get to a nice park with pretty nice trails, with killer views. Right next to the state vet hospital, so an abundence of vets everywhere. I board at a great barn, with great owners and have had minimal barn drama (one incident was with someone from out of town and she was from MI of all places and part of the hunter jumper world!) It is not an event barn, but there are a few of us there.
I really love it here; it fits everything that we are, since now I am not just a “horse” person, but have a pretty intense career, as well as enjoy everything else that FTC has to offer. Can’t say enough good things about it.[/QUOTE]
Yes, a lot to offer! Thanks so much for all of the info. Fort Collins and Tryon are in the same neck of the woods as our current top two, so that’s really helpful. I am glad to hear you really like the Colorado horse world. I haven’t heard much about it, mostly I’ve just heard about the “regular world” :P. I feel like it will give the best of both worlds as far as what I want, great trail riding and enough of an eventing and general horse show presence to suit my needs.
Or… with Greenville being so close to Tryon… 
Thanks for all of the info everyone, this is really helping a lot!