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i am going to be different----------- nothing wrong with your horse shes saving you and trying , good mare to , as she so good shes interpretating what your asking as in helping you , do the jump totally honest mare and no she wouldnt ditch you either - a horse with half her brain would have done ages ago
look at your pictures------------------ no contact very loose reins
2--------------- your not settling her up for the jumps at all in fact you rnot helping her one bit
you need to learn to see your stride, and help set her up for the jump you need to learn your half halt stride so you ca check her back and hold her
you need to start of with poles on the ground and then build up to small grids then small course cant jump big till you learnt how to do it small
one jump doesn’t do it, one jumper as in x/c or hunting , every so often doesn’t do it as in a jumping competition you have a course of jumps so you must learn to release pick up and be ready for the next one you must learn to look
for the fence and the stride -
and try to keep your head to one side of her head so that when the horse goes higher, its not going to smack you one in the face, we always move our heads to one side of the horse when jumping this allows the horse full movement of his
and we are not restricting him in anyways
you learnwhen you look at your own pictures and self crique ------- there a lots on mistake that you can improve on and its not the horse
in other word pick up your contact sit in and push