I grew up in a very horsey area of NJ. PC was pretty much non existent, most of us lived in the suburbs, and if you were lucky to have a horse of your own, it was almost always boarded.
I was very fortunate to have an incredible 4-H program. Not only did I develop important life skills I still use today, I also got a very strong work ethic through community based volunteering. Sure, we had horse shows, but the majority of my time was spent learning off of a horse, and frankly I didn’t need my own to comprehend the material. Horse bowl, hippology, horse judging, and perhaps most importantly public speaking were the crux of my time in.
I got to see so many different aspects of the horse world, many breeds and riding disciplines. We went on field trips, everywhere from MSG for the National Horse Show, lectures from feed companies, equine hospitals, to a miniature horse breeding farm. I recall that we used to strip the stalls at Gladstone after The Festival of Champions to raise money for our club. It was there that I learned about how deeply show horses are bedded, and how much it hurts to forget your sunblock at the 4-H beach trip the day prior. I can recall being involved with the driving events held there, and I myself giving presentations about basic horse knowledge to young children. Also at that facilty, I got to meet one of the kindest,most generous horse women around who took time to talk to us “horseless 4-H kids” and ended up getting us into her fabulous lesson program. For several years she graciously allowed us to take her school horses to the county fair. Imagine the joy I felt knowing that when I went to my riding lesson, I got to feed carrots to a horse competing at the Olympics!
My trip to Kentucky for Nationals was just as awesome and I again got to see new things I probably wouldn’t have without 4-H (even though I had family in Lexington).
Right after high school, I briefly worked at a show barn. I still recall the working student (now their pro rider) commenting the she was impressed a brand new “kid” could walk in and know how to properly wrap for different situations and handle some of the tougher horses. Being exposed to so many different situations had made me a better horseperson, even if I didn’t have as many miles in the tack. I had a decent working knowledge of the animals and their programs.
I made friends that I still connect with 20 years later. The men in our social group laugh because no matter what, it seems the group of 6-8 of us 4-H horse girls end up in a circle chatting.
Looking back, I was a bit bratty and didn’t even realize how much was being put in front of me. I was a typical sour puss teen, yet I STILL got to do all this stuff! It seems that 4-H gets a bad rep on here, so I just wanted to share my very positive experience. It had a ton to do with my leader, who after many, many years is still going. Judy Hennessy was incredible and gives so much to the kids in her club. She truly is an amazing woman.