Thanks everyone for your replies!
I’m glad to see the majority thinks I should lead him off frontways. That’s my Thanksgiving project - take the divider out and see how to make this work for us. :yes:
He does know how to back out, and will do it. But he’s an anxious loader and unloader and tries to turn around with the divider in. I’ve thwarted this by running a long lead rope out the side of the stock trailer to keep him facing forward.
But my nightmare scenario is him taking a bad step and getting hurt. He trips over the doorsill of his stall sometimes. I’ve tried doing cavaletti with him - on the lowest and next-to-lowest heights - both in-hand and under saddle to see if I could make him a little more aware of where his feet are. Some days it’s great. Other days it’s trippy. And still other days we bunny-hop them, which is a little startling.
I’d never willingly get rid of this little guy. He’s the “horse in the plain brown wrapper” type, but he is just perfect for me! He’s been a working horse most of his life and he’s always been part of a string. He’s been very well-taken care of and treated kindly, but as the lady who sold him to me said “He’s never had his very own person before.” He loves all the individual attention he gets now. No matter where I go on the farm, he never takes his eyes off me. I adore him right back.:love-struck:
I’ve had him nearly five months now. I used to just insist he do everything my way. And he would, eventually. Most things he’s delighted to do, but some things he will only do reluctantly. Of course, one way to look at this is “Well, you just have to make him do it!” But now that I know he really won’t take advantage of me, I’m more inclined to think “Is there a way I can make this situation a little better for him?”
So thanks again y’all.