Hello former neighbor! I lived in Newark and Hockessin but kept my horse near Fair Hill.
The northwest corner of Delaware (between the Newark and Wilmington metro areas) is actually pretty nice, with lots of different shopping and restaurant opportunities. Youâre right along the I-95 corridor, putting you 30-45 minutes to Philadelphia, 2.5 hours to New York or DC, and 1.5 hours to Baltimore. Southern New Jersey is right over the bridge, and the Delaware beaches are 2-3 hours away depending on the time of year. Newarkâs a college town with the University of Delaware campus, but also lots of opportunities with the big banks in either Newark or Wilmington. The public schools are hit-or-miss, but there are LOTS of private schools to choose from. (If you want to avoid that, Kennett Square and Chadds Ford to the north have much better schools and are very horsey - somewhat more rural though). I loved living in New Castle County and had I not had to take a job that would have made the commute unbearable, would still be there.
Only downside is thereâs not a big horse scene in northern New Castle County specifically, almost all the horse farms are in neighboring Chester County PA or Cecil County MD. Cecil County is home to the fabled Fair Hill International, which in addition to its CCI*** in October holds starter trials and cross country schoolings throughout the season. Plantation Field is in nearby Unionville, and also offers starter trials. Unionville/Cochranville/Kennett Square is an eventing hub with a high concentration of upper level riders and trainers (Phillip Dutton, Boyd Martin, Lillian Heard, the Schramms, etc), and offers a lot of boarding options. Itâs also absolutely beautiful to drive through along Rt 41.
Middletown is further down in New Castle County but is building up, and has become a destination for young families looking to buy a house and settle down. Itâs somewhat more rural down there then the rest of the county but has a great school district.
Kent and Sussex counties (âSlower Lowerâ) are definitely culturally different, much more rural and âSouthernâ than New Castle which may as well be annexed into SE Pennsylvania. Sussex County has the beaches and is becoming popular among retirees who build huge million dollar homes and golf courses. The area does have a lot of poverty though, lack of good hospitals and all of the nice attractions are at the beach which is a pain to get to from May - September. Kent County isnât much to write home about in my opinion, the capital city Dover is located there and it faces many of the same downsides as Sussex without the attraction of the beach towns.
The snow is not terrible - there may be a handful of days each winter where we get a major storm, but as others have said most of the time if it snows in the morning itâs either gone by the afternoon or at the very least the roadways are clean. It does get much colder than California but itâs manageable.