I started getting migraines when I was about 20, and still have them now (will be 35 in a couple weeks).
Mine generally “climb” from the back of my neck and are more painful on one side than the other. Like a burning ice pick in an eye socket and the base of my skull, at the same time. I experience extreme sensitivity to light, sound, and smell, and then will start projectile vomiting at any one of those triggers if I don’t have treatment in time.
I took propranalol (sp?) for several years, with little measurable improvement, and then began taking Topamax maybe about 4 years ago. It has definitely helped, although I have (and still do) experience those moments of words being taken right off the tip of my tongue. The tingling/numbness was limited, and only occurred for a few weeks when I started taking it, and again when my dosage was increased. At one point I tried the nasal spray (I’ve forgotten what it IS, exactly) but it didn’t do anything to help.
“Heat-of-the-moment”/ER/clinic treatments have included Demerol, Toredol, Zofran/phenergan/IV Benadryl…which obviously leave a person more or less incoherent but hopefully in less pain than where you started.
About 2 1/2 years ago, I got the Imitrex injections. Those are a LIFESAVER. The first one doesn’t always get rid of the migraine completely - sometimes it might take 2 or 3 injections before it’s fully resolved - but it’s a hell of a lot better than having to go to the ER/clinic/doctor on an emergent basis. Especially if you are out of town, or it’s after-hours. Migraine sufferers are often treated like drug-seekers…and I get it. It’s hard to “prove”. But still very frustrating.
Something new this year that I’m trying is trigger point injections in my trapezius muscles - my doctors feel the referred pain from extreme tension/tightness may be causing/exascerbating my migraine issues. I had them injected in late January and just again about 2 weeks ago. I can’t yet say how much of a difference this will make.
Good luck.